Is it normal that i have aged yet my sexual preferences have not?

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I have always been sexually attracted to the same types of things since before an age where I should have been sexually aware, and I am still drawn to them.
I have always liked males over the age of seventeen, and have only been with males of my age group a handful of times. Since I was roughly seven I have been curious and then aroused by the bodies of girls between the ages of seven and fourteen.
I am going on twenty and for the past year and two months I have been fantasizing about my fiances younger sister who is now nine.
I have not acted on this even though I know she would embrace any form of love from me, because it is against my set of values to be with someone under the age of twelve, but is it normal that I am still attracted to the same thing after nearly twelve years?
I am having trouble sorting myself out, since so much of me wants...just plain wants.
Please remember, I am asking if it is NORMAL, not is it right, or ok, or if I should force myself upon anyone, just is it NORMAL for me to have grown and aged but my interests remained the same.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    12 years ago | pl

    Have you ever noticed that once both people are adults that it is perfectly fine for someone to be married to a person 20 or even thirty years their junior? I feel that there are far too many double standards in society and that those standards change far too often. What is now illegal was once simply taboo and before it was taboo was acceptable and before that was expected. Homosexuality has gone from acceptable to taboo to illegal to disease to acceptable again, and the disease or crime of pedophilia was once perfectly acceptable and expected until someone somewhere decided it was wrong, girls used to marry after their first blood which can happen anytime after 8, it was like that for thousands of years and has only changed in the past hundred, and is still acceptable in Saudi Arabia if you are married to them.

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  • Darkoil
    12 years ago | pl

    Against your set of values to be with anyone under 12? Your values sound fucked. Plus look fantasising about a 9 year old is paedophilia even if you havn't acted on it. Is it normal for your values to have not changed? nope. Usually as we sexually mature our needs and wants develop too. Just out of interest when your fiances sister turns 13 will you see her as fair game and make a move?

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  • dappled
    12 years ago | pl

    "I have not acted on this even though I know she would embrace any form of love from me"

    I believe that it's normal for paedophiles to think their advances are happily requited. What you posted is only "normal" if you are a paedophile. But "normal" doesn't make it any less abhorrent. It's like asking if it's normal for murderers to kill people.

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  • Crazyperson2
    8 years ago | pl

    0_0 Kids that young do not make sexual moves. They are not yet old enough to be sexually inclined. They may just want you to love them more than their sibling. Little boys do not understand that they shouldn't put their face there. Little girls do not understand that stroking breasts is not acceptable.

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  • ChaoticKitty
    12 years ago | pl

    She and her six year old brother have both made moves on me, in fact the little boy and her got in a fight over who got me after they kill my fiance. The little boy then put his face between my legs and my fiance had to pull him away and put him in time out. The little girl then kissed me and told me she loved me best, stroked my face and and breasts. She then told me she would do anything for me.

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