Its normal, if you don't open up to anyone your ego will start regulating itself on a more conscious level. You'll need to motivate yourself and reaffirm yourself much more if you're not getting anything like it from other people. Its not necessarily bad, its good to be a loner for while and become emotionally independent while you figure things out.
But if you're feeling this way then really the only thing that is going to help is opening back up to people. Your parents may worry, your siblings and friends may pity. As long as you don't let their reactions control your feelings or your plans to make self improvements then its not a problem. Unless you're bitching and always talking about yourself, that is not good. But opening up to people and sharing emotions is pretty important.
Thanks for your comment.
I've tried to talk to them. As I have mentioned above, my mother worried sick and almost stopped eating; I heard this from my brother cause she always says she's fine. But you are right, I know I should open up more to people. I may try talking with my siblings for the time being and hopefully they won't show me any pity.
Is it normal that I have a serious talk with myself?
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Its normal, if you don't open up to anyone your ego will start regulating itself on a more conscious level. You'll need to motivate yourself and reaffirm yourself much more if you're not getting anything like it from other people. Its not necessarily bad, its good to be a loner for while and become emotionally independent while you figure things out.
But if you're feeling this way then really the only thing that is going to help is opening back up to people. Your parents may worry, your siblings and friends may pity. As long as you don't let their reactions control your feelings or your plans to make self improvements then its not a problem. Unless you're bitching and always talking about yourself, that is not good. But opening up to people and sharing emotions is pretty important.
What you are experiencing is normal for teenagers
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Thanks for your comment.
I've tried to talk to them. As I have mentioned above, my mother worried sick and almost stopped eating; I heard this from my brother cause she always says she's fine. But you are right, I know I should open up more to people. I may try talking with my siblings for the time being and hopefully they won't show me any pity.