Is it normal that i have a fetish for being insulted?

I prefer a dominant man in bed, but I really enjoy being insulted and treated like crap verbally. I like to be told to shut up, and enjoy a variety of profanity, and also that he is rough and emphasizing that I have no control (almost a rape fantasy). Is that normal? And the insulting part is very important for me. It is by far the most strongly arousing thought I have in general. A lot of guys I've been with think its weird and don't want to.