Is it normal that i have a fantasy for my wife to have an affair

Now I'm no psychologist, but I think that people who have a low self-esteem tend to be the ones that have sexual fantasies without them in it. I find myself a huge turn off, personally, and have fantasies about other people with other people. Maybe your sexually turned off by your own body, or you feel like she deserves better than you.

You can learn to satisfy her yourself. have a little faith in yourself! when I started being intimate with my man, he was clueless about a woman's anatomy, so I tried to show him on myself the basics on how a woman is wired, so to speak. after that, he was so determined to satisfy me that he spent hours at bookstores reading about how to perfect his technique. he later told me about his studies, and asked me to let him try some things out first with his hand while we were in his truck, lol. I was happy with how he wielded my body! later after he gave me multiple orgasms while giving me oral, and then discovered I was capable of squirting! omg he has been my besr lover to date! the moral of this story? you can, too, learn how to satify her. if ur worried your package isnt large enough, dont worry so much. all u have to do is learn how to get around it by certain techniques!! you got a research project on your hands, boy!

Keep it as a fantasy and don't mention it to her. It's a pandora's box - once you open it you may not like what you find. Reality is very different.

Well you got three options. 1) Keep dreaming. 2) Stop thinking of it and it will go away. 3) Let her have an affair but don't be jealous because it was afterall, your fantasy.

There's definitely something Freudian in there...I'm no therapist but sounds like you need to sort out your self esteem issues first, then your sexual fantasy problem will resolve itself