It doesn't mean it's ok, it means it's none of your business. You don't know all the details of fat people's lives by looking at them.
It seems like you're putting a lot of energy into worrying about other people's lives and resenting them for that. Like I said before, concern is normal, but when you're posting on the internet about how much you hate it when people are obese, it seems like your concern isn't healthy anymore. Be concerned, sure, but set adult boundaries, and don't interfere in parts of people's lives that aren't your business. A basic level of respect is something all people should get, not something they should have to earn by making lifestyle choices you approve of, no matter how right you might be about those choices.
You know what? You're right. My problem is I was just using the word "fat". I just don't like unhealthy habits. Who cares if someone's fat. Thanks for that.
Is it normal that I hate when people are obese and unhealthy?
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It doesn't mean it's ok, it means it's none of your business. You don't know all the details of fat people's lives by looking at them.
It seems like you're putting a lot of energy into worrying about other people's lives and resenting them for that. Like I said before, concern is normal, but when you're posting on the internet about how much you hate it when people are obese, it seems like your concern isn't healthy anymore. Be concerned, sure, but set adult boundaries, and don't interfere in parts of people's lives that aren't your business. A basic level of respect is something all people should get, not something they should have to earn by making lifestyle choices you approve of, no matter how right you might be about those choices.
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You know what? You're right. My problem is I was just using the word "fat". I just don't like unhealthy habits. Who cares if someone's fat. Thanks for that.
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Thank you! It's lovely to have these conversations be productive.