I'm not angry at them for being FAT. I'm not angry at them for looking a certain way. I said a million times, I only care because they are throwing their health away. Again, it's not like I look at a person and think "Wow, they must have done this to themselves." But I have met many obese people who are simply lazy. I have met plenty of people who are quite overweight but still lead a healthy lifestyle. And really? Just because someone might NOT get diseases, it's okay? And trust me, I can see things in many other unhealthy habits. I've met smokers who have stained teeth, disgusting yellow nails, and the smoker voice. That's easy to see. And you know what, I don't respect drug addicts/alcoholics either because they are throwing their lives away too. You are so damn lucky to have a life and opportunities and you just waste them being unhealthy and putting yourself at risk, no matter how you are doing it. If they need help, whatever, go out there and get it, whether it's therapy or a nutritionist or even just a supportive friend, go out there and get it. And again, as long as the person is HEALTHY,
I don't care how they look or whatever.
It doesn't mean it's ok, it means it's none of your business. You don't know all the details of fat people's lives by looking at them.
It seems like you're putting a lot of energy into worrying about other people's lives and resenting them for that. Like I said before, concern is normal, but when you're posting on the internet about how much you hate it when people are obese, it seems like your concern isn't healthy anymore. Be concerned, sure, but set adult boundaries, and don't interfere in parts of people's lives that aren't your business. A basic level of respect is something all people should get, not something they should have to earn by making lifestyle choices you approve of, no matter how right you might be about those choices.
You know what? You're right. My problem is I was just using the word "fat". I just don't like unhealthy habits. Who cares if someone's fat. Thanks for that.
Is it normal that I hate when people are obese and unhealthy?
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I'm not angry at them for being FAT. I'm not angry at them for looking a certain way. I said a million times, I only care because they are throwing their health away. Again, it's not like I look at a person and think "Wow, they must have done this to themselves." But I have met many obese people who are simply lazy. I have met plenty of people who are quite overweight but still lead a healthy lifestyle. And really? Just because someone might NOT get diseases, it's okay? And trust me, I can see things in many other unhealthy habits. I've met smokers who have stained teeth, disgusting yellow nails, and the smoker voice. That's easy to see. And you know what, I don't respect drug addicts/alcoholics either because they are throwing their lives away too. You are so damn lucky to have a life and opportunities and you just waste them being unhealthy and putting yourself at risk, no matter how you are doing it. If they need help, whatever, go out there and get it, whether it's therapy or a nutritionist or even just a supportive friend, go out there and get it. And again, as long as the person is HEALTHY,
I don't care how they look or whatever.
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It doesn't mean it's ok, it means it's none of your business. You don't know all the details of fat people's lives by looking at them.
It seems like you're putting a lot of energy into worrying about other people's lives and resenting them for that. Like I said before, concern is normal, but when you're posting on the internet about how much you hate it when people are obese, it seems like your concern isn't healthy anymore. Be concerned, sure, but set adult boundaries, and don't interfere in parts of people's lives that aren't your business. A basic level of respect is something all people should get, not something they should have to earn by making lifestyle choices you approve of, no matter how right you might be about those choices.
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You know what? You're right. My problem is I was just using the word "fat". I just don't like unhealthy habits. Who cares if someone's fat. Thanks for that.
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Thank you! It's lovely to have these conversations be productive.