Is it normal that i hate other peoples laundry?

Ive always hated the smell of other peoples laundry. I do have a lot of obsessive compulsive habits (washing myself excessively, perfectionism, switching the light on and off until it sounds right to me) and I've always been particularly picky about the way I smell. Even if somebody uses the same laundry soap as me I feel that their clothes dont smell as good as mine. I wont let anybody else wash their laundry with mine or use my body soaps or that sort of thing. After a one night stand or anything like that i also dont let anybody stay in my bed for too long because i wont be able to sleep if i feel it smells too much like them. These really compulsive habits started around the age of seven when my father started physically abusing me and ive been told it could just be a way of getting control back. What do you think, is it normal?