Is it normal that i hate my mum and sister with a passion ?

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I hate my Mum and Sister at the moment. Since i have been old enough to voice my own opinion there has been some major issues. My Mum is such a b*t*h and she even b*tches to my sister (who backs her up and hates me for it) and step dad about me , even to her 'close friends' as well .
I have a boyfriend and we have been going out for 11 months now and yet she still isn't accepting of him and i don't know what to do seeing as i am not allowed to go out for the day with him on our 11 month anniversary. His family are so nice and she blames the fact that i am unhappy at home on them . To them she just comes across plain rude !
So is it normal to hate her ?

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Based on 42 votes (26 yes)
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  • dappled
    13 years ago

    I've been thinking about what to say for what seems like forever now. I try never to give advice that I know is wrong. But your problem is especially difficult because I've been in your situation and I couldn't find my way out of it either. Everything I was going to advise you to do, I realise I'd already tried and it didn't work. The only thing I can actually offer you is that I completely understand, and that I'm sorry.

    Whatever you do, though, stick with your boyfriend. He sounds like something really important in your life. We need something like that even at the best of times. We certainly need it at the worst.

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  • xino00
    13 years ago

    fuck them!

    they are not in control of your life, you are!

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  • Crudhouse
    12 years ago

    I'm a guy. My advice is...stay away from the guy. Stick it out with the family, get the best education your family will afford for you and then do the best you can with your life. Guys will just mess you up if you alread have friction in your family. No guy wants anything to do but get in your pants. I wish I could tattoo that into every girl's head

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  • MissAnomaly
    13 years ago

    As long as you don't hate them forever. I mean I feel like that at times with my own family... but remember this time would pass and things get better down the line of time.
    And about your boyfriend, when you can't be with him and want to, there's always the phone and the internet till you see him in person again.

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  • TheW1fey
    13 years ago

    You will be out of the house one day and they will have no say. Live your life, keep your boyfriend and just bide your time until you can escape the hell hole you are living in. In the mean time I would be making plans and saving money to GTFO! Good luck!

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  • SandsOfTheMind
    13 years ago

    You are not a puppet. If they don't like the decisions you make, that's their problem.

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  • Trismegistus
    13 years ago

    Shoot them in the back.

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    • sixsix
      13 years ago

      Uhhh, very , very bad advice. You have no idea what the mental condition of this person is, so advising violence is irresponsible.

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