Sorry but it does sound like your mother has some issues. Did anything happen in her life before she had you that may have badly affected her? Some people talk about these things with their parents, others don't. Personally, I believe it's healthy to speak as openly as possible with parents - it's the 21st century now, you know? I don't know what sort of reaction you'll get if you attempt to speak to your mum. Have you spoken to your dad about how your mum is towards you? Maybe that would be a good starting point. However, if they're together, prepare for him to leap to her defence a bit even if he knows she's in the wrong. If they're seperated or whatever, then he may be able to take a more balanaced view. Sounds like there's a bit of a tangle of wires that need to be detangled here... apologies for naff metaphor.
Is It Normal That I Hate My Mother
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Sorry but it does sound like your mother has some issues. Did anything happen in her life before she had you that may have badly affected her? Some people talk about these things with their parents, others don't. Personally, I believe it's healthy to speak as openly as possible with parents - it's the 21st century now, you know? I don't know what sort of reaction you'll get if you attempt to speak to your mum. Have you spoken to your dad about how your mum is towards you? Maybe that would be a good starting point. However, if they're together, prepare for him to leap to her defence a bit even if he knows she's in the wrong. If they're seperated or whatever, then he may be able to take a more balanaced view. Sounds like there's a bit of a tangle of wires that need to be detangled here... apologies for naff metaphor.