I think despite everything that you mum has ever said to you, you need to respect her. You don't have to like her even! Respect is a must I find. Especially with parents. I know it's a difficult task when you're the one being disrespected, but I think that's the first step to take.
The next thing is, is that you are definitely not a mistake! You were brought into the world for a purpose! What that is, no one knows, but you find yourself eventually! Don't ever let anyone lead you to believe that you're worthless and that you can't do anything you're passionate about! If you love to dance, do it, and rock it! In a way I can completely understand where you're coming from!
I'm in no way shape or form the smartest person, but I do know that feelings are just absolutely normal in general. It upsets me that she's said these things to you, but all I can really advise is that you respect her, and if you can, speak up! Tell her how you're really feeling! I just recently started to do that and it feels really good! No disrespect whatsoever! You could always go about saying, "You know, I don't appreciate that comment." Or, "I tried my absolute best and this is all I could achieve."
I really hope this helps you in some way! Hang in there!
Is it normal that I hate my mother?
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I think despite everything that you mum has ever said to you, you need to respect her. You don't have to like her even! Respect is a must I find. Especially with parents. I know it's a difficult task when you're the one being disrespected, but I think that's the first step to take.
The next thing is, is that you are definitely not a mistake! You were brought into the world for a purpose! What that is, no one knows, but you find yourself eventually! Don't ever let anyone lead you to believe that you're worthless and that you can't do anything you're passionate about! If you love to dance, do it, and rock it! In a way I can completely understand where you're coming from!
I'm in no way shape or form the smartest person, but I do know that feelings are just absolutely normal in general. It upsets me that she's said these things to you, but all I can really advise is that you respect her, and if you can, speak up! Tell her how you're really feeling! I just recently started to do that and it feels really good! No disrespect whatsoever! You could always go about saying, "You know, I don't appreciate that comment." Or, "I tried my absolute best and this is all I could achieve."
I really hope this helps you in some way! Hang in there!
:)