Is it normal that i hate my mam & her family

I really do hate & detest my mams family. They are like a bunch of South American in-breeds. Her sister has stolen from me, lied about me, bitched about me & has always just generally put me down. Her kids have done the same since they were old enough to speak. My mum knows this & not only has she just turned a blind eye to it has stuck up for them when I say anything & accuse me of trouble causing! What sort of mother is that? I am so angry inside with my mum, I wish her dead. My baby brother died as a baby so you would think she would be overprotective about me........obviously not! I don't want any of them in my life but while there is hate there is feeling. I just want them all to go away & leave me alone but even now when iv moved into my own place they continue to bitch & blame me for anything that happens. I do hate my mum & cannot wait for her to die so, out of spite I can bury her away from my brother & without her family. Is this feeling normal? Like I said, I don't want to hate them I want to get rid of this anger & just feel numb towards them but I am finding it hard to get rid of the hate!

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  • Life gets better when you get out on your own. I had a horrible relationship with my mother when I was a child/teenager. In fact, on the evening before I moved away, she told me she hated me and she was glad I was leaving. She had a brain aneurysm two years ago today. It changed her entire personality; now she's a wonderful, caring, happy person who laughs all the time. She said that she regrets how she treated me and now she is one of the most supportive people in my life.

    The reason why I told you my story, is so that you know that you are not alone in having a shitty relationship with your mum. Also, so that you know that even though your mum's horrid, there's a part of her that knows it and regrets it - it's just that she hasn't matured enough to realize it yet.

    Move away (when you're old enough), get her out of your life for a while, so that it doesn't feel so raw. Good luck.

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  • How do you feel about your sir?

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  • Hun I agree! My moms family is sooo annoying! Not my grandparents but her2 sisters and brother they can't take a joke! They are mean to me my mother and my dad. They drove my one aunt away 20 years ago! She hasn't talked to us since! My aunts step daughter is rude her 158003802 year old hubbie always calls me an ungrateful bee otch and they too are very southern! Family sucks! But, unfortinatley you are stuck with them!! Sorry!

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  • It's ok to hate your mams family but not her, if she's really annoying you then move out!!!!!! Actually if you move to a different town or just further away from your mams house, it will give you some more space. Good luck.

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  • And you are a F@&K!!)(G racist!
    When you grow up you will realize that after all the self-pity you have nothing left but selfishness and lonliness.

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