Is it normal that I hate my life?

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  • i can not believe that is an excuse for advise! it sounded like bullying.

    this person is trying to get help. resorting to their level causes more bullying, if its a lot of people your outnumbered and that dosent help at all. being nice to people is what you should do. retaliation is stupid. your basically telling her to turn into a bully. swearing at teachers? oh yeah sure if you want to get a bad reputation. that stuff goes on your permanent record.

    also "emo person" and "geek"?! stereotype much,you called her two insults in one.

    so yeah become a bully, get a bad permanent record and change who you are. great advice there idiot.

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    • Stereotype? she stated she likes "emo"core music? Its not stereotyping to take a hint, and geek? reading manga is referred to as Otaku -> Japanese for more or less geek. When you are nice "you get stepped on" It isnt all andy pandy in school, its more or less surivial, my cousins best friend followed your advice of being nice to people and not "standing up for herself" she took it, you know what else she took? enough pain killers to kill a bull elephant, yeah she killed herself, i was close friends with her, im sorry but, if thats what happens when you be nice constantly yeah sure you have your dignity and your morals, your pride. But pride is the deadliest of the seven sins, a life is above all else. When did i ever say i was giving advice? Im not telling her, advising her, nothing, i merely wrote something down, she can overlook it, i dont care, im just voicing experiences i have met with people, and wrote them down, nothing more, infact i dont reccomend her to follow these, personally. Its her life, her choice, i would be happier if she chose what she done on her own, and make her own choices, because if she follows what we say and it doesnt work out she will blame us. And for the record, if someone says to you "go hand yourself!" and you do your option and dont reply, thats gravy. But it isnt bullying to tell someone to "fuck off" is it? Oh and the fact that you insinuate stereotypes as insults is a little crude and presumptious considering i do similar activities to her. Goes on permanent record? REALLY? JESUS. Im suprised i got a fucking decent job then after going to university. Whooo boy. Oh and when you quoted "Emo Person" i also said whatever, i looked at the previous comment and saw what others assumed and put "whatever" as a complete disregard to what they and others said. Bullying is when you repeatedly abuse someone for no reason whatsoever to hurt them, make them feel belittled. Dishing out something back in self defence is more or less fine. What happens if your getting attacked, you dont do anything because its "the nice thing to do" You die. The fact that you refer to her asking for help is degrading. She never said ask for help, or help me, she said is it normal? its a simple yes or no answer really. Dont use the word idiot lightly, i could theoretically say you are "bullying" me, as you called me an idiot for voicing an opinion, not very nice huh? And instead of "bullying" others i more implied that she shouldnt care what others think. Another thing, when i said geek, i was referring to myself and how i think my friends would view me. And by the swearing at teachers thing, if someone doesnt bat an eyelid at you, you are in the place the eye does not see, get some attention. Jeeeez. Im sure you can understand why i have this take on things, with the suicide, for that i apologise. However, most of the "IDEAS" i proposed, where simply vague overexaggerative suggestions in a "i dont know what you would do in that situation" attitude. You clearly dont know what "banter" is.

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      • to be honest i thought the exact same as noodle so please dont be mean to them

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