Get more brightly coloured clothes from different places im not a girl so i cant shed any light? Maybe get clothes from New Look (depending on where your from?) Dress brighter = Look nicer, Look Nicer = More approachable, More approachable = More conversations, More conversations = More friends, less bullies, Less bullies + More friends = Happiness in school. Maybe listen to different music around people, and in general? Improve your mood a little? i would suggest Bob Marley, Ill Biskits but thats me. If people bully you be more charismatic, when they write on your s**t dont just sit there, tell them to do one, do similar "pranks" on them. They crave a reaction, i did when i did stuff like that, the bigger the reaction, the more hilarious is was. I like manga and anime, though none of my friends know that, cos they would think im a geek, only my best friend knows. Show some people your artistic side i guess, it adds character and personality. When you get bullied, dont be so gloomy about it, just think "why would i care? once i leave school im never gonna see these suckers again anyway, why waste my fun at school moping around like ee-orr from winnie the pooh, cos when you do that, not many people would approach you. If they steal your socks, steal their underwear, or put their stuff in the shower, if they try and do it? one up them! keep spare clothes in your locker!! If the teacher dont care, call them a bad word, that will get their attention! But your mum and dad are right, its cliché but "man the f**k up!" stop letting people do this to you. If you dont do anything, they know they will get away with it, if someone says something to you, spit on their face. School isnt a daydream, its survival. Wear your ovaries on the outside for goodness sake. When people say bad things to you, even a "yeah whatever" makes all the difference. Dish some abuse their way. You might think ohh i dont want to lower myself to their level, thats stupid. Your not lowering yourself, its funny when you make fun of other people and they do the same, its banter, who cares if they are serious, your not. You may be nice to people, but just being nice doesnt get you respect in school, its gets you walked over. I hope this gets through to you, i wasnt quick enough to tell it to my cousin whos in the same situation, although she isnt an emo person or whatever.
i can not believe that is an excuse for advise! it sounded like bullying.
this person is trying to get help. resorting to their level causes more bullying, if its a lot of people your outnumbered and that dosent help at all. being nice to people is what you should do. retaliation is stupid. your basically telling her to turn into a bully. swearing at teachers? oh yeah sure if you want to get a bad reputation. that stuff goes on your permanent record.
also "emo person" and "geek"?! stereotype much,you called her two insults in one.
so yeah become a bully, get a bad permanent record and change who you are. great advice there idiot.
Stereotype? she stated she likes "emo"core music? Its not stereotyping to take a hint, and geek? reading manga is referred to as Otaku -> Japanese for more or less geek. When you are nice "you get stepped on" It isnt all andy pandy in school, its more or less surivial, my cousins best friend followed your advice of being nice to people and not "standing up for herself" she took it, you know what else she took? enough pain killers to kill a bull elephant, yeah she killed herself, i was close friends with her, im sorry but, if thats what happens when you be nice constantly yeah sure you have your dignity and your morals, your pride. But pride is the deadliest of the seven sins, a life is above all else. When did i ever say i was giving advice? Im not telling her, advising her, nothing, i merely wrote something down, she can overlook it, i dont care, im just voicing experiences i have met with people, and wrote them down, nothing more, infact i dont reccomend her to follow these, personally. Its her life, her choice, i would be happier if she chose what she done on her own, and make her own choices, because if she follows what we say and it doesnt work out she will blame us. And for the record, if someone says to you "go hand yourself!" and you do your option and dont reply, thats gravy. But it isnt bullying to tell someone to "fuck off" is it? Oh and the fact that you insinuate stereotypes as insults is a little crude and presumptious considering i do similar activities to her. Goes on permanent record? REALLY? JESUS. Im suprised i got a fucking decent job then after going to university. Whooo boy. Oh and when you quoted "Emo Person" i also said whatever, i looked at the previous comment and saw what others assumed and put "whatever" as a complete disregard to what they and others said. Bullying is when you repeatedly abuse someone for no reason whatsoever to hurt them, make them feel belittled. Dishing out something back in self defence is more or less fine. What happens if your getting attacked, you dont do anything because its "the nice thing to do" You die. The fact that you refer to her asking for help is degrading. She never said ask for help, or help me, she said is it normal? its a simple yes or no answer really. Dont use the word idiot lightly, i could theoretically say you are "bullying" me, as you called me an idiot for voicing an opinion, not very nice huh? And instead of "bullying" others i more implied that she shouldnt care what others think. Another thing, when i said geek, i was referring to myself and how i think my friends would view me. And by the swearing at teachers thing, if someone doesnt bat an eyelid at you, you are in the place the eye does not see, get some attention. Jeeeez. Im sure you can understand why i have this take on things, with the suicide, for that i apologise. However, most of the "IDEAS" i proposed, where simply vague overexaggerative suggestions in a "i dont know what you would do in that situation" attitude. You clearly dont know what "banter" is.
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Get more brightly coloured clothes from different places im not a girl so i cant shed any light? Maybe get clothes from New Look (depending on where your from?) Dress brighter = Look nicer, Look Nicer = More approachable, More approachable = More conversations, More conversations = More friends, less bullies, Less bullies + More friends = Happiness in school. Maybe listen to different music around people, and in general? Improve your mood a little? i would suggest Bob Marley, Ill Biskits but thats me. If people bully you be more charismatic, when they write on your s**t dont just sit there, tell them to do one, do similar "pranks" on them. They crave a reaction, i did when i did stuff like that, the bigger the reaction, the more hilarious is was. I like manga and anime, though none of my friends know that, cos they would think im a geek, only my best friend knows. Show some people your artistic side i guess, it adds character and personality. When you get bullied, dont be so gloomy about it, just think "why would i care? once i leave school im never gonna see these suckers again anyway, why waste my fun at school moping around like ee-orr from winnie the pooh, cos when you do that, not many people would approach you. If they steal your socks, steal their underwear, or put their stuff in the shower, if they try and do it? one up them! keep spare clothes in your locker!! If the teacher dont care, call them a bad word, that will get their attention! But your mum and dad are right, its cliché but "man the f**k up!" stop letting people do this to you. If you dont do anything, they know they will get away with it, if someone says something to you, spit on their face. School isnt a daydream, its survival. Wear your ovaries on the outside for goodness sake. When people say bad things to you, even a "yeah whatever" makes all the difference. Dish some abuse their way. You might think ohh i dont want to lower myself to their level, thats stupid. Your not lowering yourself, its funny when you make fun of other people and they do the same, its banter, who cares if they are serious, your not. You may be nice to people, but just being nice doesnt get you respect in school, its gets you walked over. I hope this gets through to you, i wasnt quick enough to tell it to my cousin whos in the same situation, although she isnt an emo person or whatever.
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i can not believe that is an excuse for advise! it sounded like bullying.
this person is trying to get help. resorting to their level causes more bullying, if its a lot of people your outnumbered and that dosent help at all. being nice to people is what you should do. retaliation is stupid. your basically telling her to turn into a bully. swearing at teachers? oh yeah sure if you want to get a bad reputation. that stuff goes on your permanent record.
also "emo person" and "geek"?! stereotype much,you called her two insults in one.
so yeah become a bully, get a bad permanent record and change who you are. great advice there idiot.
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Stereotype? she stated she likes "emo"core music? Its not stereotyping to take a hint, and geek? reading manga is referred to as Otaku -> Japanese for more or less geek. When you are nice "you get stepped on" It isnt all andy pandy in school, its more or less surivial, my cousins best friend followed your advice of being nice to people and not "standing up for herself" she took it, you know what else she took? enough pain killers to kill a bull elephant, yeah she killed herself, i was close friends with her, im sorry but, if thats what happens when you be nice constantly yeah sure you have your dignity and your morals, your pride. But pride is the deadliest of the seven sins, a life is above all else. When did i ever say i was giving advice? Im not telling her, advising her, nothing, i merely wrote something down, she can overlook it, i dont care, im just voicing experiences i have met with people, and wrote them down, nothing more, infact i dont reccomend her to follow these, personally. Its her life, her choice, i would be happier if she chose what she done on her own, and make her own choices, because if she follows what we say and it doesnt work out she will blame us. And for the record, if someone says to you "go hand yourself!" and you do your option and dont reply, thats gravy. But it isnt bullying to tell someone to "fuck off" is it? Oh and the fact that you insinuate stereotypes as insults is a little crude and presumptious considering i do similar activities to her. Goes on permanent record? REALLY? JESUS. Im suprised i got a fucking decent job then after going to university. Whooo boy. Oh and when you quoted "Emo Person" i also said whatever, i looked at the previous comment and saw what others assumed and put "whatever" as a complete disregard to what they and others said. Bullying is when you repeatedly abuse someone for no reason whatsoever to hurt them, make them feel belittled. Dishing out something back in self defence is more or less fine. What happens if your getting attacked, you dont do anything because its "the nice thing to do" You die. The fact that you refer to her asking for help is degrading. She never said ask for help, or help me, she said is it normal? its a simple yes or no answer really. Dont use the word idiot lightly, i could theoretically say you are "bullying" me, as you called me an idiot for voicing an opinion, not very nice huh? And instead of "bullying" others i more implied that she shouldnt care what others think. Another thing, when i said geek, i was referring to myself and how i think my friends would view me. And by the swearing at teachers thing, if someone doesnt bat an eyelid at you, you are in the place the eye does not see, get some attention. Jeeeez. Im sure you can understand why i have this take on things, with the suicide, for that i apologise. However, most of the "IDEAS" i proposed, where simply vague overexaggerative suggestions in a "i dont know what you would do in that situation" attitude. You clearly dont know what "banter" is.
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to be honest i thought the exact same as noodle so please dont be mean to them