Your hatred is irrational. By your own admission, the child is normal, yet you want to "kick his face in." You seem to recognize that even feeling this way is not okay, but you reject the obvious - counseling. Please do not just keep pretending you like him and think that that is enough. There are counselors that will charge a reduced rate if you cannot afford to pay. Call a few counselors and explain your situation and see what they suggest. He is just a little boy and he does not deserve your hostility. Maybe he is a reminder that your fiancee had children with another man and you can't handle that, but you need to be the grown-up here and get over this. Try putting yourself in his place - the poor kid only gets to see his own mother for a month a year, and has to share her with you, his worst enemy (at least I hope he has no one else feeling pleasure at his injuries).
Is it normal that I hate my gf's kid?
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Your hatred is irrational. By your own admission, the child is normal, yet you want to "kick his face in." You seem to recognize that even feeling this way is not okay, but you reject the obvious - counseling. Please do not just keep pretending you like him and think that that is enough. There are counselors that will charge a reduced rate if you cannot afford to pay. Call a few counselors and explain your situation and see what they suggest. He is just a little boy and he does not deserve your hostility. Maybe he is a reminder that your fiancee had children with another man and you can't handle that, but you need to be the grown-up here and get over this. Try putting yourself in his place - the poor kid only gets to see his own mother for a month a year, and has to share her with you, his worst enemy (at least I hope he has no one else feeling pleasure at his injuries).