Have you ever had these violent and ugly feelings about other people? Do you think that this little boy is mistreating you - somehow being unfair to you - really now?
Sure seems to me you are harboring ill will, a grudge and blaming him for something - and that that "something" is groundless and unreasonable. Ask yourself: what do I expect from this child? Then ask if it is reasonable & normal for you, as an adult and step-parent, to expect this. Probably not.
But you are going to have to be honest with yourself about your lack of empathy and respect & man up about the ridiculous ideas and expectations that underlie the animosity you harbour about this mere child.
First off. You sound a bit anal-retentive. But on a more serious note, there are plenty of kids out there we'd all like to smack. Like the whiny little fucker on isle 7 screaming about a toy he can't have I mean WHO here hasn't thought of ramming him with their grocery cart? Or throwing the nearest tub of mayonnaise at his head? This is normal behaviour and quite frankly it seems like your making it out like this man is sick. I mean it's not only kids it's regular every day adults that I'd like to beat too. But I'm from New York people from the east coast have very few filters and patience anyways I think your a normal guy who wants to beat the crap out of his girlfriends son every so often, completely nothing wrong with that. Don't let these people make you think your some kind of weirdo who needs guidance
Is it normal that I hate my gf's kid?
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Have you ever had these violent and ugly feelings about other people? Do you think that this little boy is mistreating you - somehow being unfair to you - really now?
Sure seems to me you are harboring ill will, a grudge and blaming him for something - and that that "something" is groundless and unreasonable. Ask yourself: what do I expect from this child? Then ask if it is reasonable & normal for you, as an adult and step-parent, to expect this. Probably not.
But you are going to have to be honest with yourself about your lack of empathy and respect & man up about the ridiculous ideas and expectations that underlie the animosity you harbour about this mere child.
Glad you want to do something about it.
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First off. You sound a bit anal-retentive. But on a more serious note, there are plenty of kids out there we'd all like to smack. Like the whiny little fucker on isle 7 screaming about a toy he can't have I mean WHO here hasn't thought of ramming him with their grocery cart? Or throwing the nearest tub of mayonnaise at his head? This is normal behaviour and quite frankly it seems like your making it out like this man is sick. I mean it's not only kids it's regular every day adults that I'd like to beat too. But I'm from New York people from the east coast have very few filters and patience anyways I think your a normal guy who wants to beat the crap out of his girlfriends son every so often, completely nothing wrong with that. Don't let these people make you think your some kind of weirdo who needs guidance
PS - in clarifying your expectations, check in with a nurse, Dr, teacher what have you about what to expect from children of that age.