Brother i feel you, i have known my gf since we were kids and we have been together for 4 years. She has 6 children by 4 men and other then one who past away none of the father's are around. The kids range from 23 to 11. The 2 oldest are a 23 yr old boy and 20 yr old girl. The boy is worthless, lives with grandmom talks to her like shit treats her like shit,thankfully he isn't around much so i don't have to deal with him. Now the 20 yr old is the problem, when me and her mother got together she started sit constantly, she did things to make is fight tasked to me and her mother both like shit and got a ticket out at 18. She has been back a few times since and it goes OK for awhile but then the real her comes out, me and my gf are trying to raise our younger children i also have a 10 year old son who lives with us and sometimes my gf does things,tolerates things from this girl to the determent to the other children and she refuses to see it. She thinks I just hate her daughter but that isn't the truth, I actually care very much for the girl but dont like who she is and dont have many positive memories to draw on when she cracks slick with someone in the house and I imediately get in a crappy mood. I can take her in spurts but sometimes I just need a break from her and this causes my gf to think I hate her. How can I get her to understand that it is just what i say and I need a break every now and then when she has been around for days, I mean fuck i get jealous over her and i believe it's ok, I mean who wants to come home from work to find there 20 yr old step daughter is in your bed and when you try to be nice and all her to leave for a few so u can get a shower, lie down etc...she says some slick shit and then mom defends her saying she was only playing and that i don't see it because i hate her... I don't want a grown child to cost me my family and i mean she is part of that family too and i care about her i just can't handle her all the damn time
Is it normal that I hate my gf's kid?
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Brother i feel you, i have known my gf since we were kids and we have been together for 4 years. She has 6 children by 4 men and other then one who past away none of the father's are around. The kids range from 23 to 11. The 2 oldest are a 23 yr old boy and 20 yr old girl. The boy is worthless, lives with grandmom talks to her like shit treats her like shit,thankfully he isn't around much so i don't have to deal with him. Now the 20 yr old is the problem, when me and her mother got together she started sit constantly, she did things to make is fight tasked to me and her mother both like shit and got a ticket out at 18. She has been back a few times since and it goes OK for awhile but then the real her comes out, me and my gf are trying to raise our younger children i also have a 10 year old son who lives with us and sometimes my gf does things,tolerates things from this girl to the determent to the other children and she refuses to see it. She thinks I just hate her daughter but that isn't the truth, I actually care very much for the girl but dont like who she is and dont have many positive memories to draw on when she cracks slick with someone in the house and I imediately get in a crappy mood. I can take her in spurts but sometimes I just need a break from her and this causes my gf to think I hate her. How can I get her to understand that it is just what i say and I need a break every now and then when she has been around for days, I mean fuck i get jealous over her and i believe it's ok, I mean who wants to come home from work to find there 20 yr old step daughter is in your bed and when you try to be nice and all her to leave for a few so u can get a shower, lie down etc...she says some slick shit and then mom defends her saying she was only playing and that i don't see it because i hate her... I don't want a grown child to cost me my family and i mean she is part of that family too and i care about her i just can't handle her all the damn time