It is getting worse and worse. I try to be compassionate, I try to find something good about him, but I can't stand my girlfriends 18 year old child. First of all he is a complete sissy. He is scared of so many things. For example when we go to the lake to go swimming his mom tries to get him to put his feet in the water but he won't because he is scared since he doesn't know how to swim. It is like this with everything. He is a scrawny weakling who lets fear control his life. He sits in his room not playing video games but watching people play video games on youtube. He doesn't have any friends or go outside. He just sits in his room all day every day when not in school with his big stupid headphones in his room full of pokemon and legos and shit tons of other little kid stuff. He is really really dumb. Generally nerdy/geeky kids tend to be smart but he is so dumb. He is also incompetent. He can't clean a dish for the life of him, failed his driving test multiple times and has to be driven around, and flunked most of his classes. He has a complete 'punchable face' - he looks like a freak going half bald and all pathetic all the time. I get angry when I look at him he looks so fucking stupid. He doesn't want to work, he just wants to sit on his computer, and it looks like he is going to end up one of those adults who lives in their parents basement. He is awkward to be around - it is not that he has no social skills but he makes things awkward with his nervousness. He tries to be funny by doing this stupid voice I think he got from a cartoon that makes me cringe every time I hear it. But worse of all he is selfish and rude. It is typical for him to refuse to do things, for example he got all weird when I cooked a bbq picnic for memorial day to get out of the house, as he wants to sit in his room on his computer. He never says thank you, never compliments people, and ignores people often when they try to talk to him.
I can't find anything good about him. I can't find anything. He is not smart, ugly as fuck, awkward and not social, no artistic abilities, scared of everything, rude, etc. It brings out this inner bully in me. I resist the urges to pick on him but I want to. I hate him so much but love his mom. I want to be the type of person who would find good in him but he annoys me so much that I don't want to like him. I hate him.
Brother i feel you, i have known my gf since we were kids and we have been together for 4 years. She has 6 children by 4 men and other then one who past away none of the father's are around. The kids range from 23 to 11. The 2 oldest are a 23 yr old boy and 20 yr old girl. The boy is worthless, lives with grandmom talks to her like shit treats her like shit,thankfully he isn't around much so i don't have to deal with him. Now the 20 yr old is the problem, when me and her mother got together she started sit constantly, she did things to make is fight tasked to me and her mother both like shit and got a ticket out at 18. She has been back a few times since and it goes OK for awhile but then the real her comes out, me and my gf are trying to raise our younger children i also have a 10 year old son who lives with us and sometimes my gf does things,tolerates things from this girl to the determent to the other children and she refuses to see it. She thinks I just hate her daughter but that isn't the truth, I actually care very much for the girl but dont like who she is and dont have many positive memories to draw on when she cracks slick with someone in the house and I imediately get in a crappy mood. I can take her in spurts but sometimes I just need a break from her and this causes my gf to think I hate her. How can I get her to understand that it is just what i say and I need a break every now and then when she has been around for days, I mean fuck i get jealous over her and i believe it's ok, I mean who wants to come home from work to find there 20 yr old step daughter is in your bed and when you try to be nice and all her to leave for a few so u can get a shower, lie down etc...she says some slick shit and then mom defends her saying she was only playing and that i don't see it because i hate her... I don't want a grown child to cost me my family and i mean she is part of that family too and i care about her i just can't handle her all the damn time
Is it normal that I hate my gf's kid?
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It is getting worse and worse. I try to be compassionate, I try to find something good about him, but I can't stand my girlfriends 18 year old child. First of all he is a complete sissy. He is scared of so many things. For example when we go to the lake to go swimming his mom tries to get him to put his feet in the water but he won't because he is scared since he doesn't know how to swim. It is like this with everything. He is a scrawny weakling who lets fear control his life. He sits in his room not playing video games but watching people play video games on youtube. He doesn't have any friends or go outside. He just sits in his room all day every day when not in school with his big stupid headphones in his room full of pokemon and legos and shit tons of other little kid stuff. He is really really dumb. Generally nerdy/geeky kids tend to be smart but he is so dumb. He is also incompetent. He can't clean a dish for the life of him, failed his driving test multiple times and has to be driven around, and flunked most of his classes. He has a complete 'punchable face' - he looks like a freak going half bald and all pathetic all the time. I get angry when I look at him he looks so fucking stupid. He doesn't want to work, he just wants to sit on his computer, and it looks like he is going to end up one of those adults who lives in their parents basement. He is awkward to be around - it is not that he has no social skills but he makes things awkward with his nervousness. He tries to be funny by doing this stupid voice I think he got from a cartoon that makes me cringe every time I hear it. But worse of all he is selfish and rude. It is typical for him to refuse to do things, for example he got all weird when I cooked a bbq picnic for memorial day to get out of the house, as he wants to sit in his room on his computer. He never says thank you, never compliments people, and ignores people often when they try to talk to him.
I can't find anything good about him. I can't find anything. He is not smart, ugly as fuck, awkward and not social, no artistic abilities, scared of everything, rude, etc. It brings out this inner bully in me. I resist the urges to pick on him but I want to. I hate him so much but love his mom. I want to be the type of person who would find good in him but he annoys me so much that I don't want to like him. I hate him.
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Brother i feel you, i have known my gf since we were kids and we have been together for 4 years. She has 6 children by 4 men and other then one who past away none of the father's are around. The kids range from 23 to 11. The 2 oldest are a 23 yr old boy and 20 yr old girl. The boy is worthless, lives with grandmom talks to her like shit treats her like shit,thankfully he isn't around much so i don't have to deal with him. Now the 20 yr old is the problem, when me and her mother got together she started sit constantly, she did things to make is fight tasked to me and her mother both like shit and got a ticket out at 18. She has been back a few times since and it goes OK for awhile but then the real her comes out, me and my gf are trying to raise our younger children i also have a 10 year old son who lives with us and sometimes my gf does things,tolerates things from this girl to the determent to the other children and she refuses to see it. She thinks I just hate her daughter but that isn't the truth, I actually care very much for the girl but dont like who she is and dont have many positive memories to draw on when she cracks slick with someone in the house and I imediately get in a crappy mood. I can take her in spurts but sometimes I just need a break from her and this causes my gf to think I hate her. How can I get her to understand that it is just what i say and I need a break every now and then when she has been around for days, I mean fuck i get jealous over her and i believe it's ok, I mean who wants to come home from work to find there 20 yr old step daughter is in your bed and when you try to be nice and all her to leave for a few so u can get a shower, lie down etc...she says some slick shit and then mom defends her saying she was only playing and that i don't see it because i hate her... I don't want a grown child to cost me my family and i mean she is part of that family too and i care about her i just can't handle her all the damn time