Well I've read a few hate stories, so scrolled down past the tons of others to add my own. Like many others of you I've Googled this topic. I really don't like my girlfriends daughter. She's 11 and is horrible. She doesnt like me either so its mutual. She is just the most manipulative little brat I've every come across. Luckily I don't see her that often. I've reached the 3 year stage with my girlfriend now and feel it's time to make a greater commitment but I don't wanna have to live with the daughter. Luckily we only live across the road from each other but its not good going forward. My girlfriend can't be bothered with her most of the time and just dumps her on her ex husband (who's still in love with her) or when she's had enough goes and has a lie down and won't let her in her room. I'm very hands on and deal with her behaviour directly so this has caused explosive situations. But in defence of my girlfriend she has occasionally dealt with her after I've told her about her behaviour. But it needs constant re-enforcing I just can't be bothered I don't see it as my problem. I just find it easier to avoid the kid. She is so manipulative and my girlfriend does what ever she says. One time it was a Friday night and I had plans for the weekend with my girlfriend which we'd agreed. I was watching TV with them The kid starts telling me in English (They are from the Canary islands, my girlfriend can't speak English very well.) her plans for the weekend which involved her mother driving her about the whole time, ruining my plans. I asked my girlfriend about this when we were alone. She said no she didn't know anything about this. I went home that night thinking it was just wishful thinking on the part of the kid. The next day my girlfriend got a load of phone calls from the kids friends mothers giving her logistics for the plans the kid had made with her friends she couldn't really say no and the kid turned the water works on when she tried. It's stuff like that constantly. Also if she doesn't get get own way she goes ballistic. She also extremely possesive of her mother. I've kind of had it with the situation I'm never going to have it how I want it. So probably best to walk away. Your totally normal if you hate you GFS kid.
Is it normal that I hate my gf's kid?
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Well I've read a few hate stories, so scrolled down past the tons of others to add my own. Like many others of you I've Googled this topic. I really don't like my girlfriends daughter. She's 11 and is horrible. She doesnt like me either so its mutual. She is just the most manipulative little brat I've every come across. Luckily I don't see her that often. I've reached the 3 year stage with my girlfriend now and feel it's time to make a greater commitment but I don't wanna have to live with the daughter. Luckily we only live across the road from each other but its not good going forward. My girlfriend can't be bothered with her most of the time and just dumps her on her ex husband (who's still in love with her) or when she's had enough goes and has a lie down and won't let her in her room. I'm very hands on and deal with her behaviour directly so this has caused explosive situations. But in defence of my girlfriend she has occasionally dealt with her after I've told her about her behaviour. But it needs constant re-enforcing I just can't be bothered I don't see it as my problem. I just find it easier to avoid the kid. She is so manipulative and my girlfriend does what ever she says. One time it was a Friday night and I had plans for the weekend with my girlfriend which we'd agreed. I was watching TV with them The kid starts telling me in English (They are from the Canary islands, my girlfriend can't speak English very well.) her plans for the weekend which involved her mother driving her about the whole time, ruining my plans. I asked my girlfriend about this when we were alone. She said no she didn't know anything about this. I went home that night thinking it was just wishful thinking on the part of the kid. The next day my girlfriend got a load of phone calls from the kids friends mothers giving her logistics for the plans the kid had made with her friends she couldn't really say no and the kid turned the water works on when she tried. It's stuff like that constantly. Also if she doesn't get get own way she goes ballistic. She also extremely possesive of her mother. I've kind of had it with the situation I'm never going to have it how I want it. So probably best to walk away. Your totally normal if you hate you GFS kid.