Is it normal that i hate my father with a passion?

Ever since I was about 12, I've started to resent my father and the way he treats me and my mother. He constantly goes on about how I'm a fake and I act white (I'm black). He makes snide comments about the music I listen to and the clothes I wear. He also constantly calls my mother fat and has cheated on her and has two illegitimate kids. Also one night he threw me into a TV for slamming my door, but my mother wouldn't help me. I feel like he has my mother brainwashed or something because she won't do anything. I actually believe that if he dropped dead today, I wouldn't care. Is this normal?

Is It Normal?
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  • You should call a helpline for children/talk to a teacher or a friend and tell them what's going on.

    Hopefully, they'll help your mother as well as you, or at least they can tell you how your mum and you can help yourselves and each other

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  • That is terrible!!! Please get help!!!

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  • Call childline!

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  • Your dad is an abusive jerk. It's normal to hate him.

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  • i think the same as you. i feel the same about my parents

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  • You don't have to get along with your family. I don't like or love my father either... But sadly we cannot choose our parents.

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  • I DON'T think it's normal to hate a parent. If you do, something is very, very wrong, and you can't pretend that you don't need help. If everything turns out OK, I hope you find a way to forgive your dad and love him again.

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  • Get some help you don't deserve to be treated like that

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  • I think that you are in an awful situation but heres a qoute that always reminded me of my dad "I was hard on you when you was growin up. I
    did things that made you hate me. Now, you can see why I did"

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