Is it normal that i hate my father?

And furthermore, that I fear having kids specifically because I don't want to unconsciously replicate the relationship my father has with his kids, which were undoubtedly based on relationships that I'm sure he had no intention of replicating when he first settled down?

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Based on 47 votes (33 yes)
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  • girlygirl5

    why do you hate your dad?
    I hate my father but not for those stupid reasons most people have. My dad is a drug addict but he was clean for most of my childhood, then when I turned 12 he relapsed,left for a few day then waltz right back in and pretended to be worlds greatest dad. He has never been to 1 of the father/daughter things at my school and whenever he gets upset he leaves us. He is a terrible parent and I'm the oldest so I have to be the mom while my mom is out getting money to support her 6 kids.

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  • ucipher8

    Yes. Break the cycle. If the only fuck you i can say to this world before i go is by saying, i had kids, i loved my kids and if i was assassinated for whatever reason, my kids would still grow up to be good men and women.

    I don't know why you hate your father, but you sound like you are becoming a very strong first daughter. Don't you dare take shit from nobody, not even your drug addicted father who comes home just to show you how "fucked up" he is.

    You will be a great woman some day

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  • Xnedtoknowx

    Same here everybody does but some more then others

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  • Vampire30

    I hate my father because he wasn't around. I wouldn't piss on him if he was on fire. Sorry ass good for nothing.

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  • girlygirl5

    ^I can't feel sorry for you or agree with you until I know why you hate you're dad... If you hate him for some petty reason you are a total idiot

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  • My father hated his father and for all I know his father's father hated his father.

    Why not break the cycle, learn from his mistakes and raise a good family? I can see why you harbor hate but it's better to hate the idea of what your father was rather than the man himself.

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    • ucipher8

      Yes. Break the cycle. If the only fuck you i can say to this world before i go is by saying, i had kids, i loved my kids and if i was assassinated for whatever reason, my kids would still grow up to be good men and women.

      I don't know why you hate your father, but you sound like you are becoming a very strong first daughter. Don't you dare take shit from nobody, not even your drug addicted father who comes home just to show you how "fucked up" he is.

      You will be a great woman some day

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    • Good point! Though at times it's hard to separate the two.

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  • Snakeplisken

    Yeah I hate my father too, and im sure heaps of people do.

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