Is it normal that i hate my father?

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My father can be a real asshole sometimes, and I hate it! He drinks but I don't think he's an acoholic but has a few beers to drink every night and he washes down his pills with some carling at supper. He is alot older then one might think. He is 55 this year but my mom is only 44. Because he's older he thinks girls should cook for him and do anything he asks and he gets mad very easily, especially if he is wrong because he thinks he is always right. Sometimes I'm glad he is older because it means the less time he has on earth. I feel bad when I say that I hate him because he isn't a trainwreck like some fathers but I can't stand him and I can't even look him in the eyes anymore because he disgust me so much. I wouldn't even cry if he died and I know that sounds real harsh but I can't help it. Is this normal? Because I feel like an awful person that needs some serious help.

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  • furrypikachu
    14 years ago

    guurrrlll, Ive always had an animosity for my father. I have so many horrible memmories of my child hood from him beating me, yelling at me ect. once i get out of the house they will never see me again and i will not take care of them.

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  • sparrowfeed
    13 years ago

    i hate mine because he's an old-fashioned, bitter man who also thinks women should cook for him. it absolutely enrages him that my BF and his father are both the cooks of their respective houses.

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  • cgirl123456
    14 years ago

    If he died, you would feel sad but you would also feel relieved.

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  • casualcrow
    13 years ago

    Just get out of the house and do something with friends. Ignore him for a while and maybe things will settle down.

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  • AriannaAristocrat
    14 years ago

    It's okay I feel that way too. But you'll appreciate him sooner or later.

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  • jack999
    14 years ago

    yea is it normal because but just dont kill him over it and ur not a bad person becuase u think that way about him

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  • LaWebley
    14 years ago

    Yes, that is completely normal. He sounds like an absolute, bigoted worm.

    That said, given your brief but depressing testimonial, I'm pretty sure you're a new hate-figure of mine also.

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  • shygirrl91
    14 years ago

    It's not awful that you have these kind of feelings for your father, it's obvious you have some serious issues with him. You might want to talk to him about his drinking, if that's one of your issues with him. Try talking to your mom or a counselor or even a friend about him, trust me sometimes talking to someone can help. I don't think you wouldn't care if he died, I'm sure somewhere inside of you would truely be sadden if he passed away. Try talking with someone, you want to get these issues taken care of because as much as you might not like it now your family is your family and you can't change that.

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