Is it normal that i hate my family and everyone about it?

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I am an average person and i dont usually dislike people easily. Theres just something about my family that i cant stand. It seems like it is their life goal to annoy the shit out of me. I hate my parents and my sister, im also pretty sure that they hate me back. The only thing i can do to calm myself is listen to blasting music (which they hate.) Is it normal that i hate my family this much? Do you have any ideas to why i would hate them so much?

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    It doesn't sound like a very happy household. Nor do you seem entirely pleased with your own contribution to the bad feelings. So at some point you need to stop reacting & drowning in your negative feelings and start acting to do something positive about it.

    You are angry. Thats all. Angry. Period. And people feel angry when they think they are or have been treated unfairly or badly. Sometimes they have been. Other times, and quite often, they have not been.

    You know your situation. Think it through. What specifically are you angry about? Are you really being treated badly? Do you really believe your family's "life goal" is to annoy you? You know you can't be serious. Thats just hyperbole that you work yourself up with.

    With valid particulars, what can be done to change the situation? Define a problem clearly and honestly and most can be solved.

    Another point would be to take responsibility for your own behaviour. Look in the mirror. Can you realistically expect anyone to enjoy being around an angry and hateful person who has no respect for the people he lives with or their feelings?

    Finally, if you are in a situation where you are in fact being abused, though I doubt you are, do get help from outside you family & do get counseling.

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  • coolio75650932
    11 years ago | pl

    your mother is a prostitute your father is a stoner and your sister is a lesbian :3 zang zang all better and i solved the question HAHAHAHAHA

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  • x1frosty16
    11 years ago | pl

    Perfectly normal. I have a love/hate relationship with my family but for perfectly good reasons. You only think you hate your family untill you have met mine. Lol talk about crazy selfish bastards

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  • zarfo
    11 years ago | pl

    Yes, but I lived with an unpredictable, unbalanced, unhinged, manipulative psychopath and had to rip the bedside table off the wall to baricade my door from time to time......

    If you don't even know why you hate them, I think your just a normal teenager.

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  • iamcheese
    13 years ago | pl

    i feel the same about one of my brothers. just looking at him makes me want to beat the crap out of him with a tent pole. its normal. you can't help it when someone ticks you off, and it makes it even more unbearable when you have to live with them. i know i'm counting down the days till i move out. 134 days.. :)

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  • koifish
    13 years ago | pl

    I can kinda relate to this. But as I grow older it changes.

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