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I really really really really HATE my brother. Not just like sibling hate, like, hate hate. I really really really want to beat him up, then run him over with a bus. I really really really really hate him. He is the most mean, annoying, concieted, tattletale on the face of the earth. I HATE him. But, is it ok?
I kinda feel this way about my brother but I would never literally kill him and as long as you don't do that i actually think its ok to hate your brother. Who knows? Maybe your brother is really just a big douche bag. We don't get to pick our family so we do have to deal with them as best we can, but for this exact same reason we may end up hating people society tells us we should be close to.
there's been times when i've visioned myself kicking my brothers to the floor, beating them senseless, and feeling good about it. or course this is when i'm wound up, and i do regret feeling this way afterwards. i know it will never become a reality, so i don't worry. however if you are constantly feeling this way without the brother doing anything unto you, winding you up, etc, then, no, it is not normal.
Sibling rivalry is normal, but to wish death upon your brother, I don't think it's normal or "ok." You should try to do something about this.
So you did something wrong and he told on you thus making him mean and hateable?
You really didn't give enough detail. Is he older or younger than you? What specifically did he do? What you wrote by itself is not normal nor OK. I think you're just made RIGHT NOW. But you'll get over it. Be be thankful you HAVE a sibling.