Lack of motivation, sleeping all the time, drop in libido, irritable, lack of interest in things he used to care about (you).
He might just be being a dick and taking you for granted.
Try and talk to him about his mood, is he feeling hopeless? constantly low mood? eating less? If you get yes answers then make him go to the doctor.
If he does have depression:
You have a serious decision to make, being with someone with depression is very very hard, I would look it up so you get a clear idea of it.
But trust me, I know from experience even though you'll know it's not his fault and it's just his illness, you will start to hate him, if you think you can stay with him whilst sometimes hating him then please do, but know yourself. Don't stay and then realise you can't handle it and back out when he's come to depend on you.
On the plus side he WILL get better and return to being the person you know.
is it normal that i hate my boyfriend?
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Um, he might have depression.
Lack of motivation, sleeping all the time, drop in libido, irritable, lack of interest in things he used to care about (you).
He might just be being a dick and taking you for granted.
Try and talk to him about his mood, is he feeling hopeless? constantly low mood? eating less? If you get yes answers then make him go to the doctor.
If he does have depression:
You have a serious decision to make, being with someone with depression is very very hard, I would look it up so you get a clear idea of it.
But trust me, I know from experience even though you'll know it's not his fault and it's just his illness, you will start to hate him, if you think you can stay with him whilst sometimes hating him then please do, but know yourself. Don't stay and then realise you can't handle it and back out when he's come to depend on you.
On the plus side he WILL get better and return to being the person you know.