So when your kid is walking beside you down the street and says 'Mom, Dad, look at that ugly brown person!!', do you kneel down beside him and say 'No, son, that's what we call a nigger'...?
Or 'Mom, Dad, look at that person with one arm!!'...'Son, that's what we call a gimp. Get it straight.'
Just wondering. Because it seems like anything else you could say would be 'forcing tolerance and respect' and would be wrong according to you. It would be 'fake'.
I bet if you tell nigger jokes at home, you personally wouldn't dare call a random black person on the street a nigger. So, you're fake. Practice what you preach. Next time you see a nigger, call them a nigger.
What's with all the rage, honey? Control your emotions and learn to read text completely.
That's not the case at all, quite frankly it's really far from it. You clearly don't understand that there's a fine line between respect and disrespect as well as between tolerance and intolerance called INDIFFERENCE.
I'm not supporting the idea of people disrespecting others by default and respecting them after "getting to know them" or whatever. I am just trying to say how certain people are quite biased when saying stuff like..hmm..."Don't judge me if you don't know me!" or "Respect me because I am a living breathing human". That sort of thing seems forced. First of all you judge people based on the material they provide you with, and secondly you don't respect anyone for achieving basically nothing at all. You feel indifferent for them until they show you how to act towards them.
I am against the media and too many social activist groups trying to tease out some forced and fake tolerance and respect among people as a routine. You shouldn't call someone intelligent or beautiful when they're not. Instead just be polite and refrain yourself from making foul comments and stay indifferent.
In any case the thing I'm refering to is that forced respect towards people is fake and you're basically lying. People are being forced to lie in a way trough political correctness and this sort of respect & tolerance. Instead I believe people should teach others NOT to disrespect and NOT to be intolerant. Perhaps tolerance is all black and white in this case, but respect is not, as there is, like i've mentioned, a big field of indifference.
Blah, blah, blah I understood all of it. You contradict yourself too much for any of this to be valid. You're just as fake, judgemental and intolerant as you accuse others of being, and also have no concept of the fact that there is plenty of genuine people around.
Who cares if people are respectful for whatever reason? That's like saying people who donate to charity are all self serving jerks so therefore charity should be banned. In the end, does it really matter WHY they were charitable or respectful? No, it doesn't.
So what if some people just do it for show? Who honestly gives a FUCK? You can still have a brain and think whatever you want to think and maintain a level of respect.
Some people, like you I'm sure, wouldn't say the shit you say behind closed doors, like fag, nigger or spic to any of those people's faces. So, you disrespect them in private but not in public. That's two-faced and a bitch move. You're down with disrespecting people but not directly, just behind their backs. Yeah, that's WAY better than all these other people you dis for being 'fake'. Get over yourself.
Anyway, you don't know who is genuine and who isn't and you only seem to be aware of or notice the negatives, so perhaps you need to meet new people that aren't pure garbage and not assume everyone is like you, a two-faced, judgemental, intolerant pussy.
Acting respectful is different than having respect for someone, I get it. Having true respect for someone is a deeper and more personal thing. Acting respectful is what most people do to some extent anyway-whether it's have to, want to, truly care, whatever. Like using the toilet.....sure you don't HAVE to use a toilet, and someone trained you to do it, but it just makes things go better for all involved.
I stopped reading at "blah blah blah" as I've assumed you're an asshole who isn't open minded towards things. Just go away if you're not going to give constructive replies and if you're going to mix apples and oranges like that.
In any case, judging doesn't reflect your personality nor mean that you're intolerant or whatever. Judging is essentially assuming one thing about the person THANKS TO WHAT THE PERSON provided you with. If you show me, like now, that you're an asshole, I will assume you are an asshole. If you feel bad about this, you're the one to blame, not me for being "judgmental". You're the one who presented yourself in such way.
In either case this is exactly what I meant by my post. Im supposed to show you some sort of enormous respect for being a human being now, but instead I chose to be indifferent, up till now where you gave me a reason to either respect or disrespect you. And I will just have to go with disrespect as you're absolutely unable to speak to. And quite rude, I might add.
I'm just indifferent to your feelings and you gave reasons to disrespect you in your original post. Tit for tat. Seems you can dish it out but can't take it, just as I said.
How do you know it's fake? Sure, you have seen some examples play out that justify your opinion. But that's easy to do. And by all means, challenge it.
You do know it's fake as people don't feel that way at all. It's more of a type of political correctness. In any case, people act it out to look good, not to be tolerant.
Say you know a social activist who happens to support tolerance, respect, equality, etc. etc.
But when you ask them for help they always refuse because "They don't benefit from it". Obviously all the "Help" they're doing is just to look better and paint a better social image of them, instead of really wanting to help people by being some sort of activist.
Is it normal that I hate forced tolerance, respect, etc.?
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I am not. I'm just saying that people shouldn't encourage fake tolerance because it's worse than intolerance alone.
Additionally please take your time to read posts before replying you might miss out on something like you have now ;)
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So when your kid is walking beside you down the street and says 'Mom, Dad, look at that ugly brown person!!', do you kneel down beside him and say 'No, son, that's what we call a nigger'...?
Or 'Mom, Dad, look at that person with one arm!!'...'Son, that's what we call a gimp. Get it straight.'
Just wondering. Because it seems like anything else you could say would be 'forcing tolerance and respect' and would be wrong according to you. It would be 'fake'.
I bet if you tell nigger jokes at home, you personally wouldn't dare call a random black person on the street a nigger. So, you're fake. Practice what you preach. Next time you see a nigger, call them a nigger.
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What's with all the rage, honey? Control your emotions and learn to read text completely.
That's not the case at all, quite frankly it's really far from it. You clearly don't understand that there's a fine line between respect and disrespect as well as between tolerance and intolerance called INDIFFERENCE.
I'm not supporting the idea of people disrespecting others by default and respecting them after "getting to know them" or whatever. I am just trying to say how certain people are quite biased when saying stuff like..hmm..."Don't judge me if you don't know me!" or "Respect me because I am a living breathing human". That sort of thing seems forced. First of all you judge people based on the material they provide you with, and secondly you don't respect anyone for achieving basically nothing at all. You feel indifferent for them until they show you how to act towards them.
I am against the media and too many social activist groups trying to tease out some forced and fake tolerance and respect among people as a routine. You shouldn't call someone intelligent or beautiful when they're not. Instead just be polite and refrain yourself from making foul comments and stay indifferent.
In any case the thing I'm refering to is that forced respect towards people is fake and you're basically lying. People are being forced to lie in a way trough political correctness and this sort of respect & tolerance. Instead I believe people should teach others NOT to disrespect and NOT to be intolerant. Perhaps tolerance is all black and white in this case, but respect is not, as there is, like i've mentioned, a big field of indifference.
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Blah, blah, blah I understood all of it. You contradict yourself too much for any of this to be valid. You're just as fake, judgemental and intolerant as you accuse others of being, and also have no concept of the fact that there is plenty of genuine people around.
Who cares if people are respectful for whatever reason? That's like saying people who donate to charity are all self serving jerks so therefore charity should be banned. In the end, does it really matter WHY they were charitable or respectful? No, it doesn't.
So what if some people just do it for show? Who honestly gives a FUCK? You can still have a brain and think whatever you want to think and maintain a level of respect.
Some people, like you I'm sure, wouldn't say the shit you say behind closed doors, like fag, nigger or spic to any of those people's faces. So, you disrespect them in private but not in public. That's two-faced and a bitch move. You're down with disrespecting people but not directly, just behind their backs. Yeah, that's WAY better than all these other people you dis for being 'fake'. Get over yourself.
Anyway, you don't know who is genuine and who isn't and you only seem to be aware of or notice the negatives, so perhaps you need to meet new people that aren't pure garbage and not assume everyone is like you, a two-faced, judgemental, intolerant pussy.
Acting respectful is different than having respect for someone, I get it. Having true respect for someone is a deeper and more personal thing. Acting respectful is what most people do to some extent anyway-whether it's have to, want to, truly care, whatever. Like using the toilet.....sure you don't HAVE to use a toilet, and someone trained you to do it, but it just makes things go better for all involved.
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I stopped reading at "blah blah blah" as I've assumed you're an asshole who isn't open minded towards things. Just go away if you're not going to give constructive replies and if you're going to mix apples and oranges like that.
In any case, judging doesn't reflect your personality nor mean that you're intolerant or whatever. Judging is essentially assuming one thing about the person THANKS TO WHAT THE PERSON provided you with. If you show me, like now, that you're an asshole, I will assume you are an asshole. If you feel bad about this, you're the one to blame, not me for being "judgmental". You're the one who presented yourself in such way.
In either case this is exactly what I meant by my post. Im supposed to show you some sort of enormous respect for being a human being now, but instead I chose to be indifferent, up till now where you gave me a reason to either respect or disrespect you. And I will just have to go with disrespect as you're absolutely unable to speak to. And quite rude, I might add.
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I'm just indifferent to your feelings and you gave reasons to disrespect you in your original post. Tit for tat. Seems you can dish it out but can't take it, just as I said.
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I suppose you have some mental difficulties as you're basically posting in order to tease out negative emotions.
disrespecting someone out of disrespect is actually how most arguments are formed. That's natural. I don't see your point
How do you know it's fake? Sure, you have seen some examples play out that justify your opinion. But that's easy to do. And by all means, challenge it.
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You do know it's fake as people don't feel that way at all. It's more of a type of political correctness. In any case, people act it out to look good, not to be tolerant.
Say you know a social activist who happens to support tolerance, respect, equality, etc. etc.
But when you ask them for help they always refuse because "They don't benefit from it". Obviously all the "Help" they're doing is just to look better and paint a better social image of them, instead of really wanting to help people by being some sort of activist.