All in all it depends on the circumstances and not everyone who is 'fat' for instance 'is fat' for the exact same reason and assuming so is (at the risk of sounding pretty harsh; But a observation is an observation) pretty darn ignorant tbh.
And it can do a lot of good for ones mental health to be comfortable in their own skin without people being asinine dicks about it 24/7.
So i'd say its not normal but in all honesty not everyone thinks about everything the same so *shrug*
Also it varies for everyone but at the same time this is also a statement coming crom somebody who doesnt think about looks much at all and places more value in somebody's personality and traits/morals than whether they are skinny/fat/chubby/whatever.
Oh health reasons are why people should be skinny and bah blah blah but shhh quiet not everybody has the same genetic disposition for the same basic body type so you really gotta look at the thousands of variables here and what is 'reasonably healthy' and what is 'just an unnatianable beauty standard in society' that some people might be able to fall under that catergory without effort and some cant.
There is a lot of variance here and for somebody who has put up with hearing needless fat shaming their entire life when dealing with others (or even a fat roomate fat shaming another tenant of the building who was slightly chubby) you do tend to get reeaalllyyy sick of it really quickly and your first thought switches to 'not this fucking shit again'
But hey would it kill for society to let people with some fat in their bodies to be comfortable in their own skin? No it would not.
And people have different coping mechansms and in some cases people can stress eat or overeat when horridly upset or depressed and it turns into a (genuinely) unhealthy cycle because some fucks couldnt keep their trap shut and just leave the person be and just fucking stop being dicks.
Also there might be health reasons involves or just *gasp* simply personal prefrences and they like how they look with a bit of meat on their bones rather than being skinny or trim for their build.
But there is somehwere in the middle and extremes on both sides but 'ey i'm not getting into that. Not really my topic that.
Sorry it kijda turned into a rant but...eh. Felt like it really needed to be said.
Is it normal that I hate fat acceptance?
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All in all it depends on the circumstances and not everyone who is 'fat' for instance 'is fat' for the exact same reason and assuming so is (at the risk of sounding pretty harsh; But a observation is an observation) pretty darn ignorant tbh.
And it can do a lot of good for ones mental health to be comfortable in their own skin without people being asinine dicks about it 24/7.
So i'd say its not normal but in all honesty not everyone thinks about everything the same so *shrug*
Also it varies for everyone but at the same time this is also a statement coming crom somebody who doesnt think about looks much at all and places more value in somebody's personality and traits/morals than whether they are skinny/fat/chubby/whatever.
Oh health reasons are why people should be skinny and bah blah blah but shhh quiet not everybody has the same genetic disposition for the same basic body type so you really gotta look at the thousands of variables here and what is 'reasonably healthy' and what is 'just an unnatianable beauty standard in society' that some people might be able to fall under that catergory without effort and some cant.
There is a lot of variance here and for somebody who has put up with hearing needless fat shaming their entire life when dealing with others (or even a fat roomate fat shaming another tenant of the building who was slightly chubby) you do tend to get reeaalllyyy sick of it really quickly and your first thought switches to 'not this fucking shit again'
But hey would it kill for society to let people with some fat in their bodies to be comfortable in their own skin? No it would not.
And people have different coping mechansms and in some cases people can stress eat or overeat when horridly upset or depressed and it turns into a (genuinely) unhealthy cycle because some fucks couldnt keep their trap shut and just leave the person be and just fucking stop being dicks.
Also there might be health reasons involves or just *gasp* simply personal prefrences and they like how they look with a bit of meat on their bones rather than being skinny or trim for their build.
But there is somehwere in the middle and extremes on both sides but 'ey i'm not getting into that. Not really my topic that.
Sorry it kijda turned into a rant but...eh. Felt like it really needed to be said.