Is it normal that i hate climaxing before my gf does?
Idk why but I hate it. How do I make myself last longer?
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Idk why but I hate it. How do I make myself last longer?
You could give her oral then have sex. They you both went right? I think it's stupid that guys are so into giving a girl an organsm!! I mean, it's good to condier her feelings, bur remember, most girl aren't like guys! We don't just cum and know when we orgasm.. atleast no one I knows does unless they're stimulated clitorily. Maybe get her to give you a signal when she's ready so you never feel greedy
I feel the same way so sometimes if she hasn't cum yet and I feel like I am about done, I think of some distracting thing like putting gas in my car or something like that lol. If this fails me, I usually can go a second round and that is a guarantee she will cum 3 times. I am so upset if she doesn't finish the first time with me.
Perhaps you should hold on on penetrating her until she's had a climax ;)
You sound like a nice guy. Not all are so considerate. Maybe make sure she orgasms at least once before sex during foreplay. There is also after sex as well I know in my experience my guy getting me off with his hand after sex if he cums quick can be very intense. I doubt she will complain.
Masturbate in the morning before you see her. If that doesn't work maybe you need to masturbate way more frequently and bring your sensitivity down.
And you should, because I almost guarantee she feels used when you finish and don't bother to make sure she got off.
You say "feel used" as if thats a bad thing?...
Oh wait...
Ok, more seriously, i agree with your advice.
Also to OP: maybe try different variants of foreplay. If before actual intercourse you start manually stimulating her, she may well be close enough when the main act begins that however long you last is sufficient.