I don't get along with my mom either...teenage years were tumultuous and similar to what you describe. Best advice I can give is just keep some space from her, don't even try to engage conversation with her just keep distance. I'm in my 30s now and see her only at holidays. That time is not fun at all and she still is miserable to be around but I'm glad I didn't just cut off all relations with her although I considered it very seriously. Much better to not have to live with that guilt and just suck it up and see her from time to time. Some day you may have grandchildren and you don't want to explain to them why they aren't allowed to meet their grandma. Someday she will be on her deathbed and you won't get to say goodbye. I recently went to a funeral for a family member and his son had been estranged for 25 years and showed up at the funeral and just completely lost it sobbing it was so sad (from tbe guilt). So yeah to sum it up just keep a good distance but don't cut off all relationsz
IIN that I hate being around my mom?
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I don't get along with my mom either...teenage years were tumultuous and similar to what you describe. Best advice I can give is just keep some space from her, don't even try to engage conversation with her just keep distance. I'm in my 30s now and see her only at holidays. That time is not fun at all and she still is miserable to be around but I'm glad I didn't just cut off all relations with her although I considered it very seriously. Much better to not have to live with that guilt and just suck it up and see her from time to time. Some day you may have grandchildren and you don't want to explain to them why they aren't allowed to meet their grandma. Someday she will be on her deathbed and you won't get to say goodbye. I recently went to a funeral for a family member and his son had been estranged for 25 years and showed up at the funeral and just completely lost it sobbing it was so sad (from tbe guilt). So yeah to sum it up just keep a good distance but don't cut off all relationsz