I've had this happen a few times, with both sexes. The one that really stands out happened a few years ago and although it wasn't a same-sex "date," it's almost always a very awkward situation regardless.
I ran into a guy I went to high school with at a restaurant whom I hadn't seen in ages. We exchanged numbers and planned to hang out and catch up. He arrived at my house one afternoon, picked me up and we went to our old school where we just kind of walked around the grounds and talked about our memories there. Then he drove me to an old abandoned church lot (?!) and started off by saying, "Isn't this a great place to make out?" I was taken aback and brushed it off until he got uncomfortably close to me and said it again. I told him I had a boyfriend, which I did, and the "date" ended shortly thereafter when he repeatedly begged and pleaded for me to kiss him. I didn't and we had one hell of an awkward ride back to my house.
I was really confused when I got home because I don't know if I had somehow lead him on (we'd been strictly friends in school) and also, his idea of a date was very odd.
Anyway, it's normal, OP. Sometimes when straight people are hit on by members of the same sex they can think that it's something about them that made them seem gay, but it usually just means that you're attractive or have a great personality. Take it as a compliment.
This reminds me of a time that I guy I only considered a friend invited me to his house to smoke opium and turned on that cheesy Pirates of the Caribbean porn and begged me to suck his dick. So tacky.. Talk about an awkward ride home. It didn't help that he played oldies on the radio.
The second part of the date was poorly planned but I think that guy probably had a big crush on you in school and thought you might have felt the same, I think he was probably a pretty innocent guy who really liked you but didn't know how to deal with it. If it makes you feel any better when he went home he probably cried and masturbated at the same time.
Too bad for him, he sounds creepy. Driving to an abandoned church lot without her consent to make out is quite presumptuous and not very nice. Regardless of how awkward the ride home was I have no pity for this guy and I'm so happy that he did not try to push the issue.
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I've had this happen a few times, with both sexes. The one that really stands out happened a few years ago and although it wasn't a same-sex "date," it's almost always a very awkward situation regardless.
I ran into a guy I went to high school with at a restaurant whom I hadn't seen in ages. We exchanged numbers and planned to hang out and catch up. He arrived at my house one afternoon, picked me up and we went to our old school where we just kind of walked around the grounds and talked about our memories there. Then he drove me to an old abandoned church lot (?!) and started off by saying, "Isn't this a great place to make out?" I was taken aback and brushed it off until he got uncomfortably close to me and said it again. I told him I had a boyfriend, which I did, and the "date" ended shortly thereafter when he repeatedly begged and pleaded for me to kiss him. I didn't and we had one hell of an awkward ride back to my house.
I was really confused when I got home because I don't know if I had somehow lead him on (we'd been strictly friends in school) and also, his idea of a date was very odd.
Anyway, it's normal, OP. Sometimes when straight people are hit on by members of the same sex they can think that it's something about them that made them seem gay, but it usually just means that you're attractive or have a great personality. Take it as a compliment.
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This reminds me of a time that I guy I only considered a friend invited me to his house to smoke opium and turned on that cheesy Pirates of the Caribbean porn and begged me to suck his dick. So tacky.. Talk about an awkward ride home. It didn't help that he played oldies on the radio.
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I had a friend take one hit of marijuana and his eyes turned as red as the devil himself........................................
Opium you say? I guess opiate/opiod addicts will do anything for their next fix..........
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It was either opium or...I can't think of the other smokable drug resin.
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Hashish?
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No... I think maybe peyote is the other thing I'm thinking of. If so I'm pretty sure it was opium. I just sort of took a pretend hit.
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Black Tar Heroin.
Peyote is a psychedelic cactus, so that's probably not it.
The second part of the date was poorly planned but I think that guy probably had a big crush on you in school and thought you might have felt the same, I think he was probably a pretty innocent guy who really liked you but didn't know how to deal with it. If it makes you feel any better when he went home he probably cried and masturbated at the same time.
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Too bad for him, he sounds creepy. Driving to an abandoned church lot without her consent to make out is quite presumptuous and not very nice. Regardless of how awkward the ride home was I have no pity for this guy and I'm so happy that he did not try to push the issue.