Lust is almost always a two way thing. Its not very sexy when a woman is jerking on your dick mechanically with a bored face. It can even hurt. If she doesnt like to do it, you probably wont feel good either when she does it.
Maybe shes freaked out by your penis (its not that uncommon for girls, even if they enjoy penetration or other ways of sex), maybe its just a lack of romance in the very situation. Dont use her as a masturbation device, try to make it a sexy thing.
Also, you as a man are not obliged to be hard, horny and ready to cum, as soon as somebody touches your penis.
I had a gf who loved to give me bj, but hated jerking me off. I felt that she didnt cherish me/my dick when she did it. it turned me off and i also would go soft or would take a long time to cum. Unfortunately i was too young then to talk about this with her, it worked out fine with others.
Is it normal that I go soft when my girlfriends giving me a handie?
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Lust is almost always a two way thing. Its not very sexy when a woman is jerking on your dick mechanically with a bored face. It can even hurt. If she doesnt like to do it, you probably wont feel good either when she does it.
Maybe shes freaked out by your penis (its not that uncommon for girls, even if they enjoy penetration or other ways of sex), maybe its just a lack of romance in the very situation. Dont use her as a masturbation device, try to make it a sexy thing.
Also, you as a man are not obliged to be hard, horny and ready to cum, as soon as somebody touches your penis.
I had a gf who loved to give me bj, but hated jerking me off. I felt that she didnt cherish me/my dick when she did it. it turned me off and i also would go soft or would take a long time to cum. Unfortunately i was too young then to talk about this with her, it worked out fine with others.
Conclusion: Yes, its normal.