I used to be like that. For me, if I didn't have someone there or if they didn't text back or if I said somethin I thought may have sounded dumb I'd get sick to my stomach too. When this got very extream I made bad sexual decisions and it fucked things up for me for a while. Once I figured everything out and matured I realized I don't need people. People usually suck and they almost always hurt you eventually. Our dependency on others can be damaging. Try to find a hobbie. Perhaps join a gym or start a sport? Create some goals that have nothing to do with anyone you know or anything to do with making you look good. Do something for yourself. It really helps :)
Also if you lean on someone for confort and depend on them too much and they leave you or they are really a jerk then you will freak. You need to give some personal space for your own good. Trust me.
Is it normal that I get way too attached to people?
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I used to be like that. For me, if I didn't have someone there or if they didn't text back or if I said somethin I thought may have sounded dumb I'd get sick to my stomach too. When this got very extream I made bad sexual decisions and it fucked things up for me for a while. Once I figured everything out and matured I realized I don't need people. People usually suck and they almost always hurt you eventually. Our dependency on others can be damaging. Try to find a hobbie. Perhaps join a gym or start a sport? Create some goals that have nothing to do with anyone you know or anything to do with making you look good. Do something for yourself. It really helps :)
Also if you lean on someone for confort and depend on them too much and they leave you or they are really a jerk then you will freak. You need to give some personal space for your own good. Trust me.