It is normal but you really need to get yourself a hobby! I use to feel like that and I think one possible reason may be due to your insecurity. I use to feel like that all the time, I was insecure in my relationships, and insecurity leads to questions such as, why is he not texting me? Is he having too much fun without me? And so on. It's been 2 years, I think you two need to sit down and talk, communication is the key to any relationship, hence why mine has gotten strong and I no longer feel insecure.tell I'm how you feel and tell hm that you do understand that they may be silly things but you just needs eeassurance and see what he says.
But start spending more time with your friends, keepyourself occupied, you have gotten yourself stuck in his surrounding alone, you don't have your own space of just being happy with you and you only seem to be happy when his around. Which is good, but never too good when it's clingy because you will push him away.
Talk to him about it, start keeping yourself busy AND why don't you guys do fun things together, go out on dates here and there, go for walks, cook for him, give each other massages, have a movie day and eat nothing but junk foood. Try and revive that spark because not only will it keep the relationships fresh, it will also help you with your mentAl state.
Give it a try, what do you have to loose in the end? At least then if anything oldies happen, you can feel happy within yourself because you can at least say you did your best so your conscious can be clear.
is it normal that i get upset with my boyfriend over everything?
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It is normal but you really need to get yourself a hobby! I use to feel like that and I think one possible reason may be due to your insecurity. I use to feel like that all the time, I was insecure in my relationships, and insecurity leads to questions such as, why is he not texting me? Is he having too much fun without me? And so on. It's been 2 years, I think you two need to sit down and talk, communication is the key to any relationship, hence why mine has gotten strong and I no longer feel insecure.tell I'm how you feel and tell hm that you do understand that they may be silly things but you just needs eeassurance and see what he says.
But start spending more time with your friends, keepyourself occupied, you have gotten yourself stuck in his surrounding alone, you don't have your own space of just being happy with you and you only seem to be happy when his around. Which is good, but never too good when it's clingy because you will push him away.
Talk to him about it, start keeping yourself busy AND why don't you guys do fun things together, go out on dates here and there, go for walks, cook for him, give each other massages, have a movie day and eat nothing but junk foood. Try and revive that spark because not only will it keep the relationships fresh, it will also help you with your mentAl state.
Give it a try, what do you have to loose in the end? At least then if anything oldies happen, you can feel happy within yourself because you can at least say you did your best so your conscious can be clear.
Good luck xx