I don't think it's healthy. I feel like someone would have to have low self esteem, or be desperately needy to have such fantasies. See a therapist and ask her what she thinks.
I'm not desperately needy, low self esteem maybe... Googled it, yeah I have low self esteem, although I am a sex addict, if I had it my way we'd fuck twice a day.
I'm actually considered attractive, slim.
I don't condone rape and I think it must be horrible to experience it, but consensual-rape, with choking, forced anal while you masturbate that gets me hard in seconds.
I'm the complete opposite to how you would expect, I think.
I'm actually one of the kind and thoughtful people, but I switch when I'm turned on.
It doesn't feel healthy when I'm finished, but damn if I had a girl who was into it as much as I am I'd feel normal, I feel normal after reading this.
There's no such thing as as consensual-rape. What you are describing is considered role play. I actually used to know a person in real life who was in to BDSM, and that individual told me it was called a scene. Also people involved in BDSM use something called a safe word. A responsible Dom should be able to stop if the sub says the safe word. Could you stop on a dime if necessary?
It's a fine line between people role playing out a scene, and actual rape, and sodomy. The point at which it becomes too much for the submissive person if you you cannot stop on a dime when that person says the safe word is the point at which it actually becomes a real rape.
I don't support, or condone BDSM, but you really shouldn't become a dom unless you have been a sub first. Also the people I've met who are really into BDSM have told me that it's a big responsibility to be a dom.
Anyway, I'm just rambling, because you seem more like a person who just has a rape fantasy than someone interested in the BDSM lifestyle. All of this is very dangerous, because the moment at which it becomes too much it would become real rape if you couldn't stop.
This is dangerous territory for both parties, and I never feel sorry for accused rapists. If you can't stop on a dime you shouldn't even be thinking about any of it.
Dominance / submission fantasies, and being into the idea of weakness / vulnerability. "Why" is hard to answer... but it's definitely a thing, I guess.
IIN that I get turned on by the thought of getting choked, drugged etc
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I don't think it's healthy. I feel like someone would have to have low self esteem, or be desperately needy to have such fantasies. See a therapist and ask her what she thinks.
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I'm not desperately needy, low self esteem maybe... Googled it, yeah I have low self esteem, although I am a sex addict, if I had it my way we'd fuck twice a day.
I'm actually considered attractive, slim.
I don't condone rape and I think it must be horrible to experience it, but consensual-rape, with choking, forced anal while you masturbate that gets me hard in seconds.
I'm the complete opposite to how you would expect, I think.
I'm actually one of the kind and thoughtful people, but I switch when I'm turned on.
It doesn't feel healthy when I'm finished, but damn if I had a girl who was into it as much as I am I'd feel normal, I feel normal after reading this.
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You're not the OP.
There's no such thing as as consensual-rape. What you are describing is considered role play. I actually used to know a person in real life who was in to BDSM, and that individual told me it was called a scene. Also people involved in BDSM use something called a safe word. A responsible Dom should be able to stop if the sub says the safe word. Could you stop on a dime if necessary?
It's a fine line between people role playing out a scene, and actual rape, and sodomy. The point at which it becomes too much for the submissive person if you you cannot stop on a dime when that person says the safe word is the point at which it actually becomes a real rape.
I don't support, or condone BDSM, but you really shouldn't become a dom unless you have been a sub first. Also the people I've met who are really into BDSM have told me that it's a big responsibility to be a dom.
Anyway, I'm just rambling, because you seem more like a person who just has a rape fantasy than someone interested in the BDSM lifestyle. All of this is very dangerous, because the moment at which it becomes too much it would become real rape if you couldn't stop.
This is dangerous territory for both parties, and I never feel sorry for accused rapists. If you can't stop on a dime you shouldn't even be thinking about any of it.
This is actually a pretty common fetish, and perfectly healthy when realized through in consensual roleplay.
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I wonder why it's so common?
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Dominance / submission fantasies, and being into the idea of weakness / vulnerability. "Why" is hard to answer... but it's definitely a thing, I guess.
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I don't relate to it.
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That's cool, you do you.