Interesting videos you have there. Props- I don't think I could burn for over 10 seconds.
For future reference, I've a boyfriend, so chatting is out of the question :/
Tips on how to bring this up with him would be very much appreciated, though.
As far as getting him to cooperate, i don't know how open he is to it, or what you like as well, but i'd say start slowly. Do you already light candles? If not, get some candles, tell him that you like the candlelight.
From there, play with the candles lightly. Wave your fingers through the flame, if you're willing, or think of some cute sexy "innocent" thing you can do with the flame. If he doesn't make a big deal about it, or if he even gets turned on a bit by it, show him that it turns you on a bit. If he's pretty vanilla, just go slow and do sexy litte things for him with the flame.
If you SHOW him that you're aroused by it with actions, he might come around. If he cares for you he'll probably take interest in what appears to turn you on. Use your judgement and be cute, sexy, playful, light, and even teasing.
As well, you can make comments that can be explained away as playful teasing, but have truth behind them.
If you get him to come around to at least thinking that your fingers running over the flame (and touching him with hot hands) are sexy,then you've got an opportunity to just go a bit further.
But, just go slow and use your judgement unless you discover right away that he likes it. I had a girl once who admitted to me the first time we talked fantasy, that she wanted it in a burning house. I promised her she could have a burning man if she wants, and that's what she got.
Good luck with your guy, i hope he will come around.
thank you so much! I've had candles lit in the room before, but not enough to light the room- always at a distance. He's a pretty open guy, and he knows I'm open to a lot of things, so this might work out. At least a little bit. I don't expect him to do too much, but just a little would suffice for me.
In a burning house sounds awesome. A lot of work though haha
Is it normal that I get turned on by fire/burning things?
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Interesting videos you have there. Props- I don't think I could burn for over 10 seconds.
For future reference, I've a boyfriend, so chatting is out of the question :/
Tips on how to bring this up with him would be very much appreciated, though.
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That's cool you have someone, i respect that.
As far as getting him to cooperate, i don't know how open he is to it, or what you like as well, but i'd say start slowly. Do you already light candles? If not, get some candles, tell him that you like the candlelight.
From there, play with the candles lightly. Wave your fingers through the flame, if you're willing, or think of some cute sexy "innocent" thing you can do with the flame. If he doesn't make a big deal about it, or if he even gets turned on a bit by it, show him that it turns you on a bit. If he's pretty vanilla, just go slow and do sexy litte things for him with the flame.
If you SHOW him that you're aroused by it with actions, he might come around. If he cares for you he'll probably take interest in what appears to turn you on. Use your judgement and be cute, sexy, playful, light, and even teasing.
As well, you can make comments that can be explained away as playful teasing, but have truth behind them.
If you get him to come around to at least thinking that your fingers running over the flame (and touching him with hot hands) are sexy,then you've got an opportunity to just go a bit further.
But, just go slow and use your judgement unless you discover right away that he likes it. I had a girl once who admitted to me the first time we talked fantasy, that she wanted it in a burning house. I promised her she could have a burning man if she wants, and that's what she got.
Good luck with your guy, i hope he will come around.
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thank you so much! I've had candles lit in the room before, but not enough to light the room- always at a distance. He's a pretty open guy, and he knows I'm open to a lot of things, so this might work out. At least a little bit. I don't expect him to do too much, but just a little would suffice for me.
In a burning house sounds awesome. A lot of work though haha
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Awesome! Good luck with him. Let me know if you need some ideas on how to play.