It's very, very important to have a mutual understanding of what happens during sex!
Sex is a land of compromise and orgasms, and should never be stressful or negative in any way. If you don't like pegging your mate, but he insists on anal pleasure, tell him that you don't mind him doing it to himself during sex (if you don't mind.) Maybe give him head while he dildos himself.
Make sure he understands it's not judging him, it's about YOU and how YOU don't enjoy that the way he does. If he can't accept that, then maybe you should divorce him :p
He would probably be delighted by any kind of acceptance to his newfound fetish, though. Give him an inch, and don't let him take a mile!
IIN that I get mad when husband watches bisexual porn?
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It's very, very important to have a mutual understanding of what happens during sex!
Sex is a land of compromise and orgasms, and should never be stressful or negative in any way. If you don't like pegging your mate, but he insists on anal pleasure, tell him that you don't mind him doing it to himself during sex (if you don't mind.) Maybe give him head while he dildos himself.
Make sure he understands it's not judging him, it's about YOU and how YOU don't enjoy that the way he does. If he can't accept that, then maybe you should divorce him :p
He would probably be delighted by any kind of acceptance to his newfound fetish, though. Give him an inch, and don't let him take a mile!
Maybe a few inches if you're feeling kinky?