OK for the first part you did right by telling him how you feel BIG UPS!! on that one next if he responded to you in a positive manner( no yelling, calm) then try to take it as is I dont know how long you guys bin dealing for or even if you guys fight alot but from little you said it seems your to shy/insicure to start a fight and for most guys would get more defensive bout it if it was a real deal. you've had you problems (eating disorder) and prob with other things too but some advice if hes not known for cheat then good if hes not a yeller then good. the worse thing you can do is keep everything inside then let it explode you say he dose not say i love you alot well alot of ppl are like that women too but more so for guys. Thinking that he said it to make you feel better might not be off the mark but also dont rule out that it is ment gather all the things you do together say together and see if they reflect on how you both feel. hes in a band well hell yea your dating a rock star lol but you should know that that comes with stress too for you and him (he has these girls haning around >me< which makes me feel possesive) i dont know if you ment him when you said me ehither way go too his gigs or WTE if you do great butlook and really look at how he interacts with the ppl there dont clig to him to show hes yours trust that he lets that be known or shows it when you are there if not then you can start but when i say start talk to him let him know whats up. but plz understand that its a two way street what you feel he might feel the same way hell us guys rather slap mud on our probs then see the doc ie. you. think in this way when he said she was chiledish it was probaly the truth he may well know your insucure and knows how youed react to the ex and when he says chiledish shed probly go out of her way to make you feel worse so he was probly trying to protect you so becaful not to spurn moments when hes trys to be good to you good luck and LATER DAYZ!!
Is it normal that I get insecure because of this?
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OK for the first part you did right by telling him how you feel BIG UPS!! on that one next if he responded to you in a positive manner( no yelling, calm) then try to take it as is I dont know how long you guys bin dealing for or even if you guys fight alot but from little you said it seems your to shy/insicure to start a fight and for most guys would get more defensive bout it if it was a real deal. you've had you problems (eating disorder) and prob with other things too but some advice if hes not known for cheat then good if hes not a yeller then good. the worse thing you can do is keep everything inside then let it explode you say he dose not say i love you alot well alot of ppl are like that women too but more so for guys. Thinking that he said it to make you feel better might not be off the mark but also dont rule out that it is ment gather all the things you do together say together and see if they reflect on how you both feel. hes in a band well hell yea your dating a rock star lol but you should know that that comes with stress too for you and him (he has these girls haning around >me< which makes me feel possesive) i dont know if you ment him when you said me ehither way go too his gigs or WTE if you do great butlook and really look at how he interacts with the ppl there dont clig to him to show hes yours trust that he lets that be known or shows it when you are there if not then you can start but when i say start talk to him let him know whats up. but plz understand that its a two way street what you feel he might feel the same way hell us guys rather slap mud on our probs then see the doc ie. you. think in this way when he said she was chiledish it was probaly the truth he may well know your insucure and knows how youed react to the ex and when he says chiledish shed probly go out of her way to make you feel worse so he was probly trying to protect you so becaful not to spurn moments when hes trys to be good to you good luck and LATER DAYZ!!