Is it normal that i get embarrassed when he says mmm during oral?

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My boyfriend REALLY enjoys going down on me and I enjoy it too obviously but sometimes during it I guess I drip cum so he makes sure to catch it with his tongue and slurps a little and kind of growls or says "mmmmm". When he does that I get super embarrassed and have to cover my face. I mean it's not a bad thing that he likes the way I taste but I get embarrassed and can't look down and my face gets really hot. Sometimes he looks up at me while he's licking me too and I can feel my face go red when we make eye contact. During sex I'm super confident and pretty dominant and I can look him straight in the eye. I guess it freaks me out that he's seeing my vagina closer up than I ever will?? I really enjoy oral and when he does it to me he wants to stay down there for at least half an hour how can I stop getting freaked out and just enjoy it?

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  • Ellenna
    8 years ago | pl

    He sounds like a fantastic lover, I think you'll get less embarrassed the more he does such wonderful things to you!

    I'm envious and I'll bet a lot of other people on here are too - if that's the only thing you can fault in your sex life you're really REALLY lucky, believe me

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    • guri
      6 years ago | pl

      give me your number

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    • Cherryblossomm
      8 years ago | pl

      haha yeah he is pretty awesome! I just have to get used to it, I'm trying to. He did it again tonight and I made a conscious effort to not get weird-ed out. I'm starting to think maybe it makes me a bit nervous because oral sex is something that is being done TO me where as intercourse is something we are doing together if that makes sense.

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      • Ellenna
        8 years ago | pl

        That does make sense but he obviously loves what he's giving you so it'd be good if you could just enjoy it without reservations. Maybe you could suck him at the same time and then it wouldn't feel so one-sided to you?

        I'm still envious!

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  • sexysonofsam
    8 years ago | pl

    I for one love eating my wife`s pussy more than the actual sex itself! I desire her sweet taste more than anything else in the world.

    If it freaks you out, lay back and close your eyes. You might even trying having a cigarette (if you and he smoke) whilst he is busy down there, it will drive him insane with lust.

    You might even try watching a bit of porn whilst he has his snack!

    As for not being able to see your pussy so close, that is not true, we all have phones with cameras in them, ask him to take some "close-ups" of your pussy, i am sure he will oblige!

    It makes me horny as the devil himself when my wife wants me to take photos of her whilst we are naked!

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  • chole
    8 years ago | pl

    What a way to rub it in my face.

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  • AskYourDoctorAboutLyrica
    6 years ago | pl

    I feel the same way when it happens to me
    I'm a guy but,same issue when gals look at me while sucking
    And I weirdly hate it when girls moan during sex. I think its annoying.
    Anyway I've never gotten over it but I recommend bringing it up with him

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  • PT121
    8 years ago | pl

    just tell him it makes you uncomfortable. communication is key

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  • Nutbolt
    8 years ago | pl

    you should taste yourself, make him kiss you with your cum in his mouth perhaps you then understand why he do it

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  • Gspyder
    8 years ago | pl

    Then tell him not to do those things. If it doesn't add anything for you there's not much point

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  • avogadro
    8 years ago | pl

    You should do the same when you are sucking him.

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    • johnho
      8 years ago | pl

      good idea, bottom line it is experience, or lack thereof. the older you get the less it will bother you.

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