Is it normal that i get creeped out by physical affections?

40% Normal
9 Comments

Physical contact with a boy or a girl by means of sexual intercourse makes me puke. I have this feeling that makes my skin crawl. Once someone likes me I know that it can lead to physical contact and feelings and I backaway and get turned off. Am I asexual? I can think that they are goodlooking, be friends with them, butnothing more than that. I've never had a bf so it's not my past that's causing this stunt. Guys and girls just transform into revolting forms once they hint that they fancy me or could lead to that.

Is It Normal?
Help us keep this site organized and clean. Thanks!
[ Report Post ]
Comments ( 9 ) Sort: best | oldest
  • GuessWho
    10 years ago | pl

    It is possible to have a romantic relationship without sex, but most people these days are generally not interested in that any more.

    I think it could be that you're not ready for sex and other people just don't respect that.
    It's a self-defence mechanism because it seems that most people that are interest in you just want to take advantage of you for sexual purposes.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    Report
    -1
    -1
      -
    • wheezypenguin
      10 years ago | pl

      If I had to put myself in a category to clarify my current sexual orientation then asexuality would fit it. You're right, in the future it may change but at the moment I have no interest in sex or high level of physical contact.

      Comment Hidden ( show )
      Report
      0
      0
  • quentari
    10 years ago | pl

    Not Asexual I think, there's a difference between "i don't want sex" and "the thought of people having sex with me makes me feel ill"

    Perhaps see a therapist or something? find out where this revulsion is coming from. If it is a reaction to "I don't want to do this" then yes, maybe asexual is a better term to describe you, but it may be psychological, which means it may be something you can overcome.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    Report
    0
    0
  • Steve92
    10 years ago | pl

    Yes, you are indeed asexual!

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    Report
    0
    0
  • VioletTrees
    10 years ago | pl

    You might be asexual. There's nothing wrong with that. In fact, it sound like you might be aromantic. Again, that's fine.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    Report
    0
    0
  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    10 years ago | pl

    i'd recommend talking to a doctor if you want to change this.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    Report
    0
    0
  • A_Wonderful_Username
    10 years ago | pl

    I'm similar, don't worry. I passed out in health during sex ed. And I would imagine I could never get too intimate with someone without passing out, or running and hiding. I think the difference is that I am probably more AFRAID of intimacy and sex than you are.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    Report
    0
    0
  • Thewomanizer
    10 years ago | pl

    WOW, this sounds alot like me tbh, but im trying to work on it, you've basically said everything i would have said. Maybe we are twins!!

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    Report
    0
    0