Men are not objects like books or cups. You cannot just pick one up and stuff him in your pocket and walk off.
Meaning... you CANNOT steal a man against his will. You CANNOT make him cheat unless he WANTS to cheat.
However YOU ARE WRONG TO SNOOP.
If you snoop and dislike what you see you only have yourself to blame.
He has the right to privacy. Claiming your "insecurity" as your motive ... just means you're trying to justify actions you know are wrong. Don't lie to yourself like that.
Show him some respect.
Because what I said was true... he can't be stolen against his will. But treating him without respect and snooping in his personal mail CAN give him the motivation to leave you.
Is it normal that I get bummed if my boyfriend talks to a girl
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You need to remind yourself of this fact.
Men are not objects like books or cups. You cannot just pick one up and stuff him in your pocket and walk off.
Meaning... you CANNOT steal a man against his will. You CANNOT make him cheat unless he WANTS to cheat.
However YOU ARE WRONG TO SNOOP.
If you snoop and dislike what you see you only have yourself to blame.
He has the right to privacy. Claiming your "insecurity" as your motive ... just means you're trying to justify actions you know are wrong. Don't lie to yourself like that.
Show him some respect.
Because what I said was true... he can't be stolen against his will. But treating him without respect and snooping in his personal mail CAN give him the motivation to leave you.