I have a post just like this. Tired of the same people and same conversations. For me, though, it's not to maintain a barrier or pull away..It's boredom and exhausting. You need to get out among different people than your immediate group, get some variety. That way, you not only get different people and conversation, you get to choose and not feel locked into your immediate group.
Last night, I went to a chain place for dinner, somewhere I hadn't been to in about a year. met and talked to some nice people, staff, even complimented one staff on her very long (especially for the service business), jet-red, perfectly shaped nails. She ate up the compliment, and said she likes them to look good for the public when she works. Talked to a guy about his working in NYC, and a couple about fireworks, since they were in that business. All in all, it was a good time, with new people, and I wasn't gone all night, like with my other group.
Get yourself out more and around new people. Find a meetup group, hobby, bowling..Anything new. Expand your circle.
IIN that I get bored of friends very easily? Or are these trust issues
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I have a post just like this. Tired of the same people and same conversations. For me, though, it's not to maintain a barrier or pull away..It's boredom and exhausting. You need to get out among different people than your immediate group, get some variety. That way, you not only get different people and conversation, you get to choose and not feel locked into your immediate group.
Last night, I went to a chain place for dinner, somewhere I hadn't been to in about a year. met and talked to some nice people, staff, even complimented one staff on her very long (especially for the service business), jet-red, perfectly shaped nails. She ate up the compliment, and said she likes them to look good for the public when she works. Talked to a guy about his working in NYC, and a couple about fireworks, since they were in that business. All in all, it was a good time, with new people, and I wasn't gone all night, like with my other group.
Get yourself out more and around new people. Find a meetup group, hobby, bowling..Anything new. Expand your circle.