Is it normal that I get angry at my boyfriend so easily?

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  • (s)aint
    10 years ago | pl

    I have a background of being bullied too.
    That and my ADHD makes me grumpy at many silly things.
    I doubt i can ever truly stop acting like this but with my boyfriend i start of by saying: I'm sorry, i can't help it but i'm furious at you for *Insert nonsense reason*
    I'm transparent as water, otherwise i'd never tell him when i get mad and KNOW that i really don't have a reason too.

    Be careful, you might end up scaring him off.

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    • DramaticOtter
      10 years ago | pl

      I know, he doesn't deserve me being so whiney and angry. I always think, if someone loves you and treats you well, be thankful and good to them. So I should start to practice what I preach...
      I can't stop acting this way netiher, and I guess explaining things / feelings is a good idea. I'm just so ashamed sometimes because I get angry with nonsense too.
      Thanks so much for the feedback. Nice to know there are people like me out there!

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      • (s)aint
        10 years ago | pl

        Well, i doubt that i'll ever stop getting annoyed over nonsense-matters as well. My mum is very much the same which is the reason why she and I didn't got along when i lived with my parents (In fact this drove me away)

        But yeah, the best thing i can advice you yo do is to explain this to him, tell him he isn't the one to blame and try to come up with ideas of how he can easen it for you and also ask him how you can make it easier for him.

        Maybe it means that you have to spend a weekend away from him or whatever.

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