Just because you'd like something to be true, doesn't mean it is or can be.
Obviously you have a need for a father and by believing that this fictitious Snapes is your father, you are insuring that you cannot have a relationship with this one either, making all possible dads bad guys.
I haven't a clue as to what your mom has said about your real Dad, but it is quite possible he doesn't even know you exist and given the chance, perhaps he'd very much like to have you in his life.
That would be a bit easier to accomplish than getting together with this Snapes.
Is it normal that I genuinely believe this?
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Just because you'd like something to be true, doesn't mean it is or can be.
Obviously you have a need for a father and by believing that this fictitious Snapes is your father, you are insuring that you cannot have a relationship with this one either, making all possible dads bad guys.
I haven't a clue as to what your mom has said about your real Dad, but it is quite possible he doesn't even know you exist and given the chance, perhaps he'd very much like to have you in his life.
That would be a bit easier to accomplish than getting together with this Snapes.