There's definitely an element of truth to all of those ideas, otherwise they wouldn't be cliches. I agree with it to an extent too. However, there's way to many people that take it literally, as in, you aren't ready to be in a relationship until you're in a totally healthy and perfect and 100% functional and ideal place in your life, and who is?
If you're in a good relationship, you can still improve on yourself whist in the relationship...the other person might encourage you. I do think it's important to be in an ok place before you get involved with someone, but it's not necessary to have everything together...if that makes sense : )
IIN that I find the concept of "toxic people" overused and ridiculous?
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"You can't love someone until you love yourself"
I actually believe in that one :D
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There's definitely an element of truth to all of those ideas, otherwise they wouldn't be cliches. I agree with it to an extent too. However, there's way to many people that take it literally, as in, you aren't ready to be in a relationship until you're in a totally healthy and perfect and 100% functional and ideal place in your life, and who is?
If you're in a good relationship, you can still improve on yourself whist in the relationship...the other person might encourage you. I do think it's important to be in an ok place before you get involved with someone, but it's not necessary to have everything together...if that makes sense : )