Is it normal that i find sex unapealing?

I find the idea of sex repulsive and I don't want any part of it. I still find men attractive, I just don't find the idea or thought of sex appealing. I actually find it kinda disgusting. Am I normal? I also don't see myself getting married just for that reason. I've never done it because it just grosses me out.

Is It Normal?
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  • asexual, but not aromantic? (is that the word?) you can like a certain gender but not want sex.

    Although, there may be some underlying fear/whatever that COULD be holding you back. Talking to a doctor/therapist could enlighten you

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  • It is OK to have a different viewpoint than society dictates. Fine to have men for friends, but don't date them. You will just make them miserable.

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  • Im a man and im the same i like girls but dont want/like sex except when im ready to be a father otherthan that NO! i had the same thinking like you but then i found that its actually a good thing coz it will help you see people more clearly and you can pick if they you or your body,dont be ashamed that you dont have a high or zero sex drive or your different coz YOUR NOT you are better than them,why? bcoz people these days base love on Sex whereas people like you and me look for a greater long lasting thing which is true love and affection...

    TC

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  • im exactly the same, it repulses me, i like men just don't want sex, and am afraid il never marry because of this !...

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  • Have you ever had an orgasm by yourself. If not you should at least try that. There are many pleasures in life and giving someone else orgasms is very pleasurable and just about the best gift anyone can give a lover.
    I think it's sad you are missing out, but I guess if you are happy then that's okay.

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  • It's called asexual don't worry your just fine I feel the same way.

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  • Have had plenty of sexual experiences and just Cba anymore, isn't as good as it's hyped up to be, I'm an introvert and a bit of a loner. I'm a dude and I've talked to people about this and they just think I'm weird

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  • The exchange of bodily fluids is definitely a gross part of sex and being that close to someone else's body and their germs...but when you love someone you dont think about those things and sex is damn good. Try it with a man you really love.You will see what I mean.

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  • I think you'll come around lol

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  • Depends on how old you are and how much experience you have had with the opposite sex. I said its not normal because it is in human nature to want to have sex.

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  • I'm the same way, men are ugly and I don't think it would be right to sleep with women.

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  • I'm the same, but I have like a hundred fetishes that turn me on.

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  • Have tried doing it in the dark i think if you can't see what is going on but you can feel it you might love it.

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