Because, like a lot of people have said already, having disagreements in a relationship doesn't make the relationship pointless. In the same way the we can be good friends with people we have disagreements with (at least we can if we have any degree of maturity whatsoever), we can also be in a good relationship with people who you have disagreements with, and this only breaks down if one person is too stubborn to allow the disagreement to come to a mutually beneficial conclusion.
If your relationships can't survive disagreements then there's something fundamentally wrong with the way you approach both disagreements and relationships.
There's nothing wrong with not wanting a relationship, but I don't think it's normal.
"Why do people hunt for someone to give up their individuality for?"
Because they accept that their individuality is not the greatest individuality, and that their personality could become richer by exposing it to and combining it with someone else's. In a healthy relationship both people understand that they should keep their individualities, sharing some parts of their lives and keeping other parts separate. In a healthy relationship nobody gives up their individuality.
Is it normal that I find relationships and dating meaningless?
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Because, like a lot of people have said already, having disagreements in a relationship doesn't make the relationship pointless. In the same way the we can be good friends with people we have disagreements with (at least we can if we have any degree of maturity whatsoever), we can also be in a good relationship with people who you have disagreements with, and this only breaks down if one person is too stubborn to allow the disagreement to come to a mutually beneficial conclusion.
If your relationships can't survive disagreements then there's something fundamentally wrong with the way you approach both disagreements and relationships.
There's nothing wrong with not wanting a relationship, but I don't think it's normal.
"Why do people hunt for someone to give up their individuality for?"
Because they accept that their individuality is not the greatest individuality, and that their personality could become richer by exposing it to and combining it with someone else's. In a healthy relationship both people understand that they should keep their individualities, sharing some parts of their lives and keeping other parts separate. In a healthy relationship nobody gives up their individuality.