You know why your arguements within your relationships are destructive?
Because you're selfish.
You're so selfish, and too damn proud to make your partner happy at the expense of yourself.
You're so self-absorbed, that you're unable to realize you might be actually wrong, and you want to enforce your own opinion upon your partners. Thus a fight is caused.
That's kinda what you're doing in the comments-section here.
You don't even THINK about the comments people give you, but you instantly jump to offensive mode and counter every single thing the other person says. And I bet you're like that in real life too.
Everything she says, no matter if she's right or wrong to begin with, you have to counter it and turn it into a big fight.
It is you who is selfish. You always have to be with the best of dates, interviewing them to see if they can actually do stuff for you. You always have to have someone on your side to please your desires and praise you. You always have to have a relationship with someone, just so you don't be like one of those soulless singles.
My argument was not about me, but about how people, in general, work. Everyone is selfish in nature, they want things to be just how they want it, and all they are happy about is what helps them, in one way or another. You, you just wanted to defend your silly traditions by personal attacks so that your way of living be justified, hence an underlying selfish motive.
Is it normal that I find relationships and dating meaningless?
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You know why your arguements within your relationships are destructive?
Because you're selfish.
You're so selfish, and too damn proud to make your partner happy at the expense of yourself.
You're so self-absorbed, that you're unable to realize you might be actually wrong, and you want to enforce your own opinion upon your partners. Thus a fight is caused.
That's kinda what you're doing in the comments-section here.
You don't even THINK about the comments people give you, but you instantly jump to offensive mode and counter every single thing the other person says. And I bet you're like that in real life too.
Everything she says, no matter if she's right or wrong to begin with, you have to counter it and turn it into a big fight.
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It is you who is selfish. You always have to be with the best of dates, interviewing them to see if they can actually do stuff for you. You always have to have someone on your side to please your desires and praise you. You always have to have a relationship with someone, just so you don't be like one of those soulless singles.
My argument was not about me, but about how people, in general, work. Everyone is selfish in nature, they want things to be just how they want it, and all they are happy about is what helps them, in one way or another. You, you just wanted to defend your silly traditions by personal attacks so that your way of living be justified, hence an underlying selfish motive.
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I don't look for relationship dear.
I let it come across, and if it doesn't, it doesn't.
If it does, it does.
I do fine with noöne by my side, I do fine with.
One just makes me enjoy life more the other, but I don't need it.
Also, you just prooved my point.