To be completely honest the pregnancy and birth thing looks so painful. I also don't have much of a desire to have kids in that I just don't want the responsibility, I never wanted that kinda responsibility in my whole life, not to mention I can't even begin to imagine all the work, and I don't think I would have the energy. I could be bright eyed and bushy tailed one moment then if I'm presented with a task I don't want to do it's like all the energy in my body just drains out of me.
I've always resented the notion that the whole maternal instinct thing just comes natural to all women. I dunno, I think I'm almost too old to have kids. I'm way too depressed and anxious on my own, and I can't imagine adding a child to all of that. I'm honestly not interested in adoption though. I think if I had to have a child I would want a biological one. Regardless I see having a child as something too overwhelming for me. I would much prefer to have pets.
I don't think you're terrible, but I'm not surprised if other women are hostile and judgmental toward you.
Is it normal that I find pregnancy and babies so disgusting?
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To be completely honest the pregnancy and birth thing looks so painful. I also don't have much of a desire to have kids in that I just don't want the responsibility, I never wanted that kinda responsibility in my whole life, not to mention I can't even begin to imagine all the work, and I don't think I would have the energy. I could be bright eyed and bushy tailed one moment then if I'm presented with a task I don't want to do it's like all the energy in my body just drains out of me.
I've always resented the notion that the whole maternal instinct thing just comes natural to all women. I dunno, I think I'm almost too old to have kids. I'm way too depressed and anxious on my own, and I can't imagine adding a child to all of that. I'm honestly not interested in adoption though. I think if I had to have a child I would want a biological one. Regardless I see having a child as something too overwhelming for me. I would much prefer to have pets.
I don't think you're terrible, but I'm not surprised if other women are hostile and judgmental toward you.