I get the feeling you have seen a lot of porn and this has likely desensitized you from natural attraction, but from your perspective has actually educated you. I can relate because I have felt similarly.
The problem is, for one, our society has over-encouraged promiscuity. 25 years ago, a lot of people had a very genuine idea of what a relationship is or should be. Our culture has taken a step back in that regard.
You're right, the anus is gross. While some or many butts look nice, anal sex is something that has been glorified in porn. I think the general shamelessness in porn has the ability to negatively affect sexuality.
Maybe it has nothing to do with porn and you've met a few select women that were shameless. I don't find just seeing a vagina attractive either, but I don't think it was ever intended to be sat and marveled at the way porn especially has taught us. From a conservative perspective, the penis and vagina are for reproduction. It's us who have put that amplification on genitalia in sexuality, sex, and society.
Is it normal that I find nudity to be a turnoff?
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I get the feeling you have seen a lot of porn and this has likely desensitized you from natural attraction, but from your perspective has actually educated you. I can relate because I have felt similarly.
The problem is, for one, our society has over-encouraged promiscuity. 25 years ago, a lot of people had a very genuine idea of what a relationship is or should be. Our culture has taken a step back in that regard.
You're right, the anus is gross. While some or many butts look nice, anal sex is something that has been glorified in porn. I think the general shamelessness in porn has the ability to negatively affect sexuality.
Maybe it has nothing to do with porn and you've met a few select women that were shameless. I don't find just seeing a vagina attractive either, but I don't think it was ever intended to be sat and marveled at the way porn especially has taught us. From a conservative perspective, the penis and vagina are for reproduction. It's us who have put that amplification on genitalia in sexuality, sex, and society.