Is it normal that i find nudity to be a turnoff?
All the stuff I'm into involves women wearing sexy clothes. I love all kinds of stuff but I find the nude body to be a turnoff. That's pretty much it. I'm assuming this isn't normal.
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All the stuff I'm into involves women wearing sexy clothes. I love all kinds of stuff but I find the nude body to be a turnoff. That's pretty much it. I'm assuming this isn't normal.
I love leather and latex. I don't know how anyone could say that a nude body is hotter than leather or latex. Have you ever felt a girl through tight sexy clothes? It's hot as hell. Have you ever seen a girl with skin tight leather pants with a big sexy ass?? That's WAY more attractive than being nude.
I am not attracted to the dirty parts of women or men. Never men, I was never gay, but with women, I was attracted to breasts, legs, midriff, beautiful faces, beautiful eyes (especially crystal blue or green eyes), and their backs. I was always turned on by a women wearing something that exposed most of her back, and was turned on by low cut tops, the lower the better. Tops low enough where her nipples would show if the top was even half a millimeter lower, I found that hot. But I never quite found the vagina and ass to really get me going, it was always a step too dirty for me. I got more turned on by a topless girl than by a naked girl. Now I find vaginas and assholes disgusting. The other parts, not disgusting, but they don't really excite me anymore.
I get the feeling you have seen a lot of porn and this has likely desensitized you from natural attraction, but from your perspective has actually educated you. I can relate because I have felt similarly.
The problem is, for one, our society has over-encouraged promiscuity. 25 years ago, a lot of people had a very genuine idea of what a relationship is or should be. Our culture has taken a step back in that regard.
You're right, the anus is gross. While some or many butts look nice, anal sex is something that has been glorified in porn. I think the general shamelessness in porn has the ability to negatively affect sexuality.
Maybe it has nothing to do with porn and you've met a few select women that were shameless. I don't find just seeing a vagina attractive either, but I don't think it was ever intended to be sat and marveled at the way porn especially has taught us. From a conservative perspective, the penis and vagina are for reproduction. It's us who have put that amplification on genitalia in sexuality, sex, and society.