Is it normal that I find it hard to get off with toys?

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  • DiscordedAngel
    7 years ago | pl

    I've tried them all, alone and with my gf, but it just doesn't work for me.

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    • Tempest-au
      7 years ago | pl

      Stick to clitoral masturbation and cunnilingus. There is no "rule" that says you need something in your vagina to have "sex".

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      • DiscordedAngel
        7 years ago | pl

        Okay, erm how exactly...? I really don't do this all that much....

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        • Tempest-au
          7 years ago | pl

          Okay... so you are a lesbian (or even an adult woman) who has no idea how to masturbate...

          Buy a book called "The Joy of Sex" - while written with heterosexuals in mind, I am sure you will find masturbation techniques in there that will assist you.

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          • Ellenna
            7 years ago | pl

            "Joy of Lesbian Sex" would be even better, but it was published nearly as long ago as Joy of Sex, so maybe neither available anywhere these days.

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            • Tempest-au
              7 years ago | pl

              I had never heard of this! - Thanks for the info Ellenna - now I have something else to add to my library.

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              • Ellenna
                7 years ago | pl

                One of my favourite memories was accompanying my teenage daughter (at her request) to a youth clinic for contraception and the two of us in the waiting room, me reading Joy Of Lesbian Sex (which I already knew a lot about anyway) and her reading Joy of Sex ....

                Which I guess means both books are now quite dated, as am I, and there's probably better information available if OP cares to look for it.

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          • DiscordedAngel
            7 years ago | pl

            Thanks. I was asexual for a long time, so I'm kinda new to it all....

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